What do women want?

Not sure if this'll confuse you even more about what women want, but I love "girly" men. I mean, half the guys I've crushed on have turned out to be gay. I don't really mind size (as long as the guy is taller than I am, and I'm 1,65m, so that isn't too hard) and it's the hottest thing ever when guys take care of their appearance and dress kinda "effeminate" sometimes <3

 

AGHHH!!!

YUCK!!!

Your KILLING ME!! LOL!!

Guy's like that...well I just want to slap them!!!

A guy can be Handsome...but PRETTY?? EFFEMINATE??

YUCK!

I am 6 foot 2 inches and I take care of my body in the extreme but PLEASE...someone put a bullet in my head the day I EVER get my nails done or go Metrosexual!! LOL!!

AA

 

To be fair I should point out there is a double standard.

Most men absolutely LOVE women who are Lesbian or better yet Bi-sexual.

That's just the way it is.

AA

 

Thank goodness we get along better than libs and cons, or the human race would end in one generation.

 

Well....only a small percentage of Liberals and Conservatives are that crazy!! LOL!!

It's both the Ultra-Left and Ultra-Right Wingers who cause all the problems as most American's are MODERATES and have both Liberal and Conservative ideologies.

I am like that.

I am a Fiscally Conservative Socially Liberal Alpha Male from Massachusetts who usually votes GOP in Presidential Elections.

In fact.....although some people make the mistake of thinking that Massachusetts is some Liberal Bastion of America in reality the vast majority of people who live and vote in Mass. are VERY MODERATE.

We usually have a primarily Democratic Legislature but as well we very often vote in a Republican Governor to balance the Mass. Government.

As example.....Mass. had the first Universal Healthcare System in the Nation and it not only worked VERY WELL...and not only saved the people of Mass. BILLIONS OF DOLLARS.....it was developed by the very best and brightest on the Planet who were brought in to design the program by Republican Governor Mitt Romney.

Romney worked with the heavily Democratic Mass. Legislature and BEFORE ANYTHING was agreed upon or sighed into Law.....both Romney and the Mass. Legislature AGREED that Universal Healthcare was way too important an issue for any partisan bickering or interference and BOTH SIDES AGREED.....that whatever the EXPERTS DECIDED WOULD WORK.....was what would be used and agreed upon to design the plan.

In the first Quarter Massachusetts Universal Healthcare saved over $100 MILLION!!

And it got better from there.

I am wealthy and my healthcare payments WENT DOWN!!!

Anyways....there is no such thing as OBAMA CARE.....as this was a plan by and from Massachusetts.

HOWEVER.....unlike Mass. what happened in Washington DC was both sides bickering and fighting and the current U.S. Universal Healthcare plan is NOT what it is supposed to be!!!

Because of POLITICS.....both sides got involved with a very well engineered plan that ONLY WORKS if it is implemented EXACTLY AS IT WAS DESIGNED!!

AA

 

This is where your problem with women comes from The big macho tough guy thing works much better in Hollywood than in real life.

 

What problem is it you think I have?

If you answer that I don't know what women want well.....let's face it.....even women don't know what women want sometimes and the same goes for men.

Now as far as my feelings concerning how much I abhor when some men do things like put on eye liner or makeup or perhaps get their nails done or any of the whole Metro-sexual ideology.....hey....I am a MAN!!

I never could understand why some men...and I am not talking about dressing up nice or being well groomed as I do that myself....I am talking about THE SISSIFICATION OF MEN!!!

You know I have no issue as far as what people do sexually nor do I care whether a person is Gay or not but I DO......have an issue when men begin to take on female traits as far as how they dress or primp.

I had a Gay Team Member and this guy was as tough as nails and every other member of the Team had absolutey no issue with his being Gay as they KNEW he would cover their backs.

I asked him once what he thought about men who were Gay that acted fluffy and got dressed up and used makeup...etc....basically I asked him what he thought about the whole Metro-Sexual movement and he said to me...."It makes me sick!!"

He told me he was a Gay Man who liked MEN....not men trying to be women!!

Now obviously there are some guy's who are married or have girlfriends who do the whole Metrosexual thing and all I can say is......there is nothing wrong with dressing up for your lady and nothing wrong with being a well groomed guy....BUT.....when a man is spending more time trying to decide whether he should get a clear coat or an opaque nail color when he get's his manicure....well......that guy has a problem.

AA

 

I am not sure about what they want, but I am pretty sure they all need full body massage with happy ending, to develop a better sense of humor.

 

Hey....EVERYBODY enjoys that!! LOL!!!

AA

 

The thing that attracts me about that kind of behaviour more than hypermasculinity is that guys who care about their appearance, dress well and groom themselves and sometimes bend gender roles are contravening the messages we get from our society about how "real men" should be. Instead of swallowing up the garbage in the media about "real men" looking like the freaking Hulk and trying to conform to a gender ideal which doesn't exist, more "effeminate" men are saying "screw you!" to stupid social gender roles, showing that they're independent thinkers who also care about how they present themselves. And that's super-hot.

Often, girls care more about certain aspects of men's personality being "alpha" and "dominant" - i.e. confidence, assertiveness, independent thought - than their appearance. I don't know anyone who would rather date a bodybuilder than an average-looking but smart, confident and caring guy.

 

except amateur women on dating sites. they prefer to be lesbians, play games and get used by all of the other ones, and complain they can't find any more nice guys, and complain about inequality in the non-porn sector.

 

That's only because they want to be with two women at the same time. Purely sexual. Most men don't want to marry those girls though.

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Some men have that kind of bone structure in their foreheads. It has nothing to do with doing drugs. A lot of people who do drugs do NOT have that. Stop being silly!

 

I think there is a happy medium. No woman really wants a guy who is misogynist, I don't think. Nothing wrong with a manly man though. I like the fact that men have manly qualities. That's what attracts me personally to men. I think a lot of women are attracted to manly men. Must be some kind of instinctual thing left over from the cavemen days or something. Lol. Of course, I don't want to be bonked over the head and dragged off to some cave somewhere though! Men who are braggarts are kind of a turn off though. I think maybe some people are classifying men in one extreme or the other.

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Yes, but you're just a kid. You and your tastes change as you grow and mature.

 

I am advocating polygamy; because every woman deserves a nice guy.

 

Nobody cares what you advocate. You're weird.

 

you only say that because i don't have enough billable hours to afford to be called, eccentric.

 

No, I say that because you are weird. Women don't like weirdos either.

 

you don't know what you are talking about. i simply don't play women's games for free, if they are not doing me everyday; like a chore, or something.

besides, i already know you are simply and merely, full of fallacy.

 

Stop pestering me. Nobody is interested in playing games with you.

 

you started it, sissy.

 

No, you did. Now stop bothering the ladies.

 

nothing but fallacy for your Cause?

 

Stop quoting me. Everytime I see a quote from you, it's a huge disappointment.