Stanford Rape Case:Doesn't modern day, 3rd wave feminism have to share some blame?

Maybe you have not been paying attention. Rape happens to women who weren't walking drink through alleyways. Your line of thinking is just as idiotic as it is pathetic.

 

When did I criticize those women who are raped by people they know ? I never did - those women are victims in every sense and they did nothing to deserve being raped. No one deserves to be raped. Women, though, who willingly choose to get drunk and put themselves in dangerous places are not doing themselves any favors.

 

You are absolutely mistaken about the problem. So, your question makes no sense.

I've pointed this out already.

Do you need help finding rape stats, or what?

 

I am 6ft, 225lbs, and I can handle myself in a fight. Granted, when I go out drinking with my buddies, I'm not worried about being raped. BUT, I do worry that drinking too much make me easy prey for being mugged if I'm walking home alone, drunk. WHICH IS WHY I AVOID WALKING HOME ALONE IF I'M DRUNK OFF MY ASS.

The thing about equality is that it comes with responsibility. Feminism wants nothing to do with demanding women make smart choices and be responsible for their actions.

 

Perhaps not and I'm not saying it is a good idea to do that, but it is still not their fault and they should not be blamed.

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So you've never been alone when you've been drunk. I find that really hard to believe. Put the blame on the criminals, not on the victims. It is statements like yours that make women not want to report rapes.

 

I have many issues with modern feminism. But the issues you are bringing up are fictitious ones.

 

I tend to not drink alone. I can't think of a time I walked around drunk, alone, by myself.

 

Now imagine that when you do go out, one friend isn't enough. Not only do you have to have multiple friends with you. But you have to make sure that you never take your eye off your drink. If you do and something bad happens some dick will happen by and say "well if youd of watched your drink this wouldn't have happened."

 

Well, plenty of men do it. If it was a family member of yours who was raped, would you interrogate her about what she was wearing or if she had too much to drink?

 

I remember hearing a story about a woman who died because of the date rape drug. Apparently she had an allergic reaction to it and died while the man was trying to rape her. How horrible is that?

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Interesting signature quote you have there. Explain it please.

 

If it has nothing to do with culture, why do some cultures have less rape than other? As for men being violent, predator sociopaths, that is just an excuse for (*)(*)(*)(*) head behavior. We don't have to be violent or predators, that is a choice.

 

many do, very few report it, it's a tough one, if you get passed out drunk and a drunk women takes advantage of you.... you are partly to blame, most of the blame is on the drunk women, but your not gonna get a lot of sympathy for it as you were passed out drunk of your own free will

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Basing a political direction on how you feel is a questionable practice.

The thing is that the world isn't necessarily like you or like me.

Again, in 70% of rapes the victim knew the assailant. THAT is where the real risk is.

 

Oh come on! "Many do." They do not. Women don't NEED to rape men to get sex. There are plenty of willing partners. Besides, there is the "getting it up" problem when a man is passed out. No woman wants to have sex with a semi.

 

yes they do, I am such a victim... so yes, they do

men don't need to rape women for sex either.. but they do

women can rape me same as men can rape women...... just men are less likely to report it

saying men can't get hard unless awake and excited is like saying a women can't get wet unless awake and excited.. just not true.. this is just more blame the victim thinking

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Don't be silly.

 

not sure why some people feel men or women can't be raped.....

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Women don't have to rape men. Why would they? What would be the purpose? If it does happen it is very rare. VERY rare. And no, most men are not going to be able to get a fully erect penis when they are unconscious. In fact, I believe some men cannot even get an erection when they are only drunk and NOT passed out. Alcohol causes impotence.

 

men do not have to rape women either but they do....

women rape men for many reasons... same as men rape women

I was raped by a women, so I can say it's very possible... you can say it's not all you want, but your wrong

it's like a man saying a women must of wanted to have sex if she got wet... it's blame the victim mentality

" In fact, I believe some men cannot even get an erection when they are only drunk and NOT passed out. Alcohol causes impotence "

seriously, many people were born from drunk sex, I think again... your wrong

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Men can't go out and get sex as easily as women, so some men may in fact feel like they have to rape women for sex, though I believe rape is more about exerting their power and control over women.

Sorry, I'm not buying it. This being an anonymous forum, anyone can make up any fantastical story.

Why did the woman allegedly rape you? Who was she?

 

Considering that an erection is actually the penis' relaxed state, it may well be easier to have an erection while passed out. Ever hear of morning wood? Same thing. And the whole "whisky dick" which is a myth, would be the result of added stress on the body trying to function in an intoxicated state. Did you take biology?

 

sure they can, just like women though they may not be able to get the ones they want....

your logic is, women can have sex with whoever they want, so they can't rape a man.... seriously?

a women rapist would love to have you on their jury

I had never met her before that night, she thought she loved me I guess.. she was crazy......
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As a matter of fact, I am a certified medical assistant, and erection is when the penis is engorged with blood. That is usually due to stimulation of some kind. The reason why men get "morning wood" is because it is when testosterone is at it's highest level in the blood stream.

 

It is allegedly to me. This is an anonymous message board, and these types of boards attract all KINDS of wackos. I don't know you or know anything about you, and if that truly happened, then my apologies, but I don't put it past anyone on these boards to make stuff up to support their position even when they KNOW they are wrong.

Women rapists are extremely rare, so you can knock it off with trying to make it sound as if men are normally rape victims or even victims a QUARTER of the amount of time that women are the victims of rape.

 

women rapists are not rare, men are just less likely to report it

I never said men are raped more then women, now your putting words in my mouth....

and really all my point was that drinking to the point of passing out is not wise and is dangerous.... bad things can happen and we should make sure to pass that message on to our young adults. MALE OR FEMALE, this in no way excuses a rapist such as in my or her case.... but it is wise advice

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