Consenting adults exchanging money for sex - should it be illegal?

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  1. Bow To The Robots

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    Assuming your summation above is correct - which is doubtful - you think the proper role of government is to facilitate "respect for the opposite gender" ??
     
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    Is it that all hoes would have to be sole proprietors? Nobody could run brothels or services in the way that nearly all other legalized prostitution is conducted?
     
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    Would you kindly explain this? Thank you.
     
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    "Pimping" connotes a coercive relationship, hence the disappearance of consent. Agency and management imply consensual agreements, hence no problems there.
     
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    For my cents on this matter, I think governments are sensitive to the sex trade. It's the KPI of an economy that's been struggling for such an extended time that their women are predominantly whores by trade. For many women -girls- born in poor countries, this is the default profession. First-world countries can't displace this with alternative work alone, so they outlaw it.

    After effect: embarrassment on the world stage.
     
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    But is that the proper role of government in a nation of free men?
     
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    That makes sense. But for women born into poverty it's the default profession by trade anyway, whether legal or illegal. By it being illegal I believe it's doing even more damage to those involved and actually helping the sex trade. It's more difficult to have illegal sex slaves working in a legal brothel subject to inspections and also directly in the public eye.

    The main source of criminal enterprise are a nations laws preventing the goods and services that the people want. Get rid of the red tape, get rid of the criminals who exploit it.

    Without a Prohibition there would have been no Al Capone. Just saying...
     
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    It's democratic people are free to legalize/criminalize prostitution through the law.

    The US is a nation of the rule of law, not 'of free men'. The idea is that such rule leaves 'good' freedoms in possession of the citizenry. We tend to be able to vote for this stuff, very few jurisdictions in the US have made prostitution game.
     
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    I agree with this. The second part of this features in the reply someone else made to your question - I kinda jumped in there - it was some diatribe about the morality of sex. In a democratic system like ours 'vices' are made illegal because people want the government to maintain a moral standard that matches their own, even if it means more human trafficking and disease.

    There would arguably be some moral decay if prostitution was plied with the same American commercial gusto that made Mattel all that dough at the expense of little girls. It's not a federal issue is it?
     
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    Ah, but what is the stated purpose of that rule of law? Is it to assuage the pangs of the majority? The whim of we petty tyrants? Or is it to preserve and protect life, liberty, and property? We operate as a society under the presumption that we are in fact free men. If that be the case, we ought to be very careful in our deliberations to be sure we're not simply enacting legislation that makes us "feel good." Franklin said "Democracy must be something more than two wolves and a sheep voting on what's for dinner." He also added, "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety. I don't think free men need a government nanny.
     
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    I think the problem is that nobody wants to be the one to "say it". Everybody is always up for reelection and taboo subjects like this usually cause way more problems for candidates than they ever want to deal with. We could argue day and night about which would be worse, legal or illegal prostitution, but at the end of the day even if we all agree on the benefits of legalizing it there are very few people in power who want to be the one to put that on the table for discussion. It opens up a huge can of worms that people don't want to deal with. So we do what we always do as society, we turn a blind eye to it.

    Which is basically what we have done. I've said it earlier in this thread that prostitution is one of those things that is illegal yet tolerated. Nobody really cares enough to enforce it. That's why those Asian massage parlors are all over the place and hookers walk the streets in every city in the country without any real fear of being picked up by the cops.

    I think it will be just like the whole marijuana thing. The reasons why it's illegal really made no real sense considering we have things like alcohol. Everybody knew that, it is literally impossible to come up with a valid argument as to why hard liquor should be legal but marijuana wasn't. Everybody knew that, but nobody wanted to be the legislator who said it. So it stayed taboo until somebody finally got the courage to say ok this is stupid. Then others followed suit.

    I think the alcohol comparison works here as well. The fact that we allow hard liquor in society almost becomes to default trump card in arguments about whether or not something else should be legal. It's like alright we are arguing that prostitution might destroy families and childrens lives while I walk to the store and walk out with a case of Jack Daniels in my hands....it just doesn't make sense. The fact that hard liquor is legal in America makes a whole lot of other arguments invalid by default.
     
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    These are certainly the hazards. Thankfully the laxness of enforcement is one of the ways that we have this personal level of freedom. Freedom is inherent, however, the purpose of the social compact is specifically to do as Franklin's quoted: to purchase safeties. As someone who won't care much what prostitution laws we have, this particular matter's neither here nor there. I don't think we'd be a democracy if we were an autocracy of freedom, however.

    Enforcement of prostitution laws is really bad and nearly impossible outside of stings done on .001% percent of the trade (missing a zero or two?). This is another way we keep Franklin resting on his back, notwithstanding that most people don't want whorehouses in their city.
     
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    I like the comparison to weed for its democratic upheaval. I guess the same thing happened with drink back in the day. No doubt, industrial pressures played a role in both of these. While Nevada has a pimp-lobby, I am not sure if there's such a thing as NORML to push whoring into public policy. Like you point out: woe betide a pro-whore politician. We're not taliban, but we've got droves of voting moral police.
     
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    So how far are you willing to take "what most of the people want" as a means for law?
     
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    Hence my point. Careful what you wish for, I guess.
     
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    only a loser would have to pay a women for sex..if you treat women with kindness and respect you should have no problem finding a great girl to have a wonderful relationship with..
     
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    This goes to the extent that the constitution allows, then that's interpreted by our Supreme Court. I'm ok with taking things this far. This system works really well. If alcohol was prohibited again, I'd take it as far as voting that law back out of existence. Personally, I would just break a law that prohibited alcohol. I think that's what people do with prostitution.
     
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    Well I think the reason why there's no real push to make it legal is because it's not something that a lot of people do. With weed and booze almost everybody does at least one or the other and a lot of people do both. There was a running gag that the only people who didn't smoke weed were people who got drug tested at work. While that's not true of course but it's simply pointing out that A LOT of people smoke weed. So there was a huge voice out there to push to make it legal. Same with booze.

    Now with prostitution it's a bit different. It's not illegal to have sex its illegal to have sex for money. So pretty much everybody still has access to sex. Now with the advent of the internet pornography has exploded into a multi billion dollar industry. So now everybody with an internet connection has access to sex, unlike back in the day when prostitution was legal. So now people have choices to get their sexual satisfaction. Real people or porn. So for those who can't get a real person they have an unlimited supply of internet porn to satisfy them instead. It's not the same but it's good enough for most to where they aren't going to start fighting for legislators to make prostitution legal. Can't get a woman to sleep with you? Screw it, there's always PornHub.

    Comical but true. If porn were banned then I think a lot of people would be pushing for legalized prostitution. But since it's not banned I think it's good enough for most people which is why not very many people even care.

    Which brings me to another point. We wanna talk about things that are detrimental to society as a justification for keeping prostitution legal then we might want to start looking at the porn industry. Once again, it becomes pretty hard to argue about what legalized prostitution would do to society when I can sit here on my computer with a bottle of whiskey and an unlimited supply of high def porn comprised of the most off the wall fetishes I can even imagine.

    I wonder what THAT is doing to society....Something positive? Probably not, yet I'm allowed to do that but I can't walk outside and pay a woman to sleep with me. See the logic here? I don't...
     
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    Very true. Forgot about porn in this context. To think it's saved the day. The paradox/contradiction comes from internet porn never having been made illegal, granted our day and age. If there was a fast-forward to the present back when prohibition of prostitution came en vogue, we probably wouldn't have so many bans. Rolling back the law is a whole different monster that does take lots of people and political allies.

    Congressmen seem into prostitutes, this may not be so far fetched.
     
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    The operative words her being have to. Its not that you have to but its far less involved an no strings attached. Not everyone is looking for love or a relationship. Thats the point.
     
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    I agree. However, that has absolutely zero relevance to this topic.
     
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    None of what you just said is true. A man could be the kindest, most respectful person on the planet, but misunderstood, or ugly, and his chances of getting laid, let alone having a functional relation ship, are slim to none. I have known such people, and I think it would be nice for them to be able rent happiness if they can't afford to own it.
     
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    How about light bulbs? Do you think free men should be told by their government what kind of light bulbs they can buy? What about sodmy laws? Should the USSC get involved in the style and manner free consenting adults have sexual relations? There are many places where "what most of the people want" is absolute suppression of legal rights for homosexuals. You're OK with this, I assume as well. Here in California, "what most of the people want" are cities that flout federal law and refuse to cooperate with authorities with regard to immigration laws. Also, apparently we want a literal decimation of the 2nd Amendment (and a good deal of the First). In my view, tyranny of the majority is just as tyrannical as tyranny of a single despot.
     
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    Yeah, I don't usually like the strawman argument of "if we do this then how about that next?" But I think it fits here in reverse fashion.

    Basically, we already have this....so why not that. Every law we pass or uphold is supposedly done out of the "good" of society. But society always has some messed up stuff in it, stuff that is way worse than prostitution. People can sit around all night and get hammered on hard liquor and watch crazy fetish porn videos all they want. That isn't helping society I don't think. But we allow it.

    We worry that prostitution will objectify women and cause men to lose respect for women. Yeah well so does watching a video where, trying to be non vulgar here, there's 1 woman and 8 men....
    Or a woman tied up and violated in all sorts of ways in those weird BDSM fetish movies or any other number of non "normal" sex acts.

    I mean there is literally a fetish for anything you can possibly imagine. All at the click of a mouse. And people are exposed to this stuff, children are exposed to this stuff. Most kids have seen porn before in America. The stats said 90%. Back in my day it was the nice tame Playboy magazines hidden under the bed. Nowadays these kids can see stuff I could never even dream up.

    I guess to me it's simple. It becomes very hard to provide a logical defense against legalized prostitution as long as there is a thing called hardcore pornography out there...
     
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    You have only yourself to blame for that, seeing you're the one apparently on a mission to bugger up the conversation with a shipload of irrelevant drivel.

    By all indications I'm aware of, you're not in good company.

    At the moment, I couldn't care less.
     

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