Is it transphobic to not want to date a trans woman?

Your statement is still wrong. You said a transgender person's only dating hope is another transgender. Since I am a cis gender, who has dated a trans person (and I am by far not the only one) then how is your statement true?

 

Poly is a thing now.

 

Well there must be straight men lining up around the block to date someone with a penis then.

Great news for trans women.

Go ahead and run with that if you want. I really don't care.

If gay men want their penis to look feminine then knock yourselves out.

I don't know much about what gay men want.

 

Yeah it's taking the world by storm.

I'm sure that there are people out there who can't get someone without settling for that.

What a sad thing.

 

Dude whether I am straight or gay or even bi, I am still cis gender not transgender.

 

If you say so.

 

I only became interested in this when Tomi lahren came out with her rant about how the men she was attracted to wouldn't commit to her and she proceeded to blame men for her standards. Then I realized a lot of straight male friends I have are single. Then I see stats on who is and who isn't single, married and so forth.

I've seen viral videos where a fat lady was being very condescending to men for not getting hot for fat women. Fat ladies can get guys some guys like that. But this lady just sprayed herself down with penis repellent.

I think trans women I'm just jumping on that bandwagon and I think it's about making them feel better. Instead of being honest and finding someone that's cool with it which I don't think they have much of a problem doing, they go on viral rampages.

Remember the "It's ma'am" guy? No it isn't.

 

Delete

 

If I remember correctly, Tomi had a really good guy that she was either married or engaged to, and she broke it off because he didn't make enough from what I understand.

Tomi is ok looking with a lot of makeup, but the kind of man she wants: tall, rich, young, good looking....is less than a fraction of 1%.

Those men have their pick of tens of millions of women, and every year there's a new crop.

She's hit the wall and is 30 now. If she doesn't marry in the next year or two, she's done.

 

**** no. I'm married thank god. Before all this woke bullshit embraced a mental disorder. You can call it a female penis...it's still a penis.

 

I wouldn't say that's fully true. I am sure it makes it more difficult and limits options though. You forgot bisexual people though, which couldn't be that uncommon considering how ancient rome was.

There was this girl I hooked up with in college. I never really got to know her well, except awkwardly and biblically, so I couldn't say whether she/he always had gender identity issues, but we stayed facebook "friends" so years later I found that they had become male. Well, his/her longterm partner, and by facebook it seems they've been together years now, is a very attractive bisexual woman. More attractive than she ever was, lol.

 

So she wanted a lifestyle and not a husband. So many people do that. It's so sad. Tomi looked alright but I'm not a good judge of that. Yeah I have a friend that lives in New York he's a hound dog. Ladies seem to find him attractive I always thought he was a goober but I did go to high school with him. He's told me about being with several women that all knew each other.

 

I dated a fellow a few years back that was in transition but stopped. But he accepted his sex. He just was rather effeminate. Even if he cross dressed I didn't mind but he didn't expect me to change my identity for him.

 

The poll question attempts to jam people into one of two categories. It deliberately does not allow someone to say, it depends.

Each individual and only each individual would be the one to ask whether their desire not to date ANYONE is based on a "fear" let alone a fear of the person being "trans". For that matter the term "trans" is ambiguous further making an answer moot.

What does trans mean, someone full transitioned or half way or not at all but identifying as the other gender>

Am I being asked do I have a fear of penises or transexuals because I do not want to suck or play with a transexual's penis or have it enter my anus? Is that the question and why?
is in my anus?

I am sure sure why anyone needs to ask about another's sexual preferences in polls. What causes that?

I has been my experience in life that when someone need to ask such a question its usually because they themselves are feeling anxious about being being attracted to a person in transition who still has a penis and skips around the concern by trying to hear answers that reassures them they are straight but can be attracted to penises.

 

Yeah I suspected that gay guys wouldn't be interested in a pseudo or real vagina any more than a straight man would be interested in a penis, pseudo or otherwise.

 

Yeah we're not the ones expecting straight men to want a penis.

That's the people that can't accept what they are.

 

yeah I mentioned bisexual in another post. Forgot about that one.

 

It's a pretty big incel talking point, but I doubt there is any truth to it.

 

There are plenty of podcasts you can watch where modern women will explain to you exactly what they are doing.

 

I'm married to a modern woman. I'm not interested in the anecdotes peddled by incels. I'm familiar with the scam industry. I see you are buying what they are selling. Such a shame.

 

Most of them don't get the bottom surgery. That wouldn't matter to me. If I have to say that I'm straight so they can be happy that's a level of mental illness I'm not equipped for..

 

I've been married to a very feminine woman for 20+ years that has given me the few things I need in spades: peace at home and a pleasant personality. She recharges my batteries so I can do what I do.

The reason I look at this stuff is because I have children of dating age.

I have a couple questions:

What makes your wife a "modern" woman?

What scam industry?

Should we not believe the things that come out of modern women's mouths when they speak?

 

I don't go near folks that openly pick their nose and eat it in front of others. Its just disgusting. I'm not "snotphobic"... its just "icky". Much the same with trannies.

 

More transactional than my tastes, but you do you. I prefer love.

She is a woman in the modern world.

The incel industry.

We should turn on our brains long enough to realize that these are just anecdotes being peddled by the incel industry. Pretending that they are representative is, well, almost as dumb as your average incel.

 

LoL "transactional" says the guy in a self described relationship with a "modern woman" that he won't describe.

Maybe that's why so many leftist men are so grouchy and projecting incel comments.

Is the incel industry led by women? You do realize a lot of these podcasts are run by women yeah? Are all these studies, such as the one just done by PEW, anecdotal?

Sounds to me you're looking to rationalize your own situation.