Women v. Nature

When you say these types of things to other people, it may bother them a bit [maybe not], but it will be with you forever. This is why it is a much better to be kind to other people [being kind to others is being kind to yourself].

I am sorry your life has not gone as you may have desired, but that is hardly my fault. Expressing your anger to somebody you do not know and cannot possibly understand demonstrates that you need to find another outlet for your hostility.

I am not anti-woman as you believe. I have five daughters and have known thousands of woman patients that I have gotten along with extremely well. Just the same, there are issues that need to be addressed, so don't take it personally.

 

Don't be daft.
I have had a satisfying, varied and interesting life I never would have had if I had had children.
A woman's natural role is not to have children. Nature had given us the choice.
It is the CHOICE whether to or not. That is nature. When you can do something ,the choice whether to do so or not is what is inherently natural. We are in control of our lives, not some expected pattern we are trapped in.
Most of my friends over years have been childless and free. They have travelled all over the world, decided to go off on one day and left the next. They have lived all over the world and speak several languages between us. We don't discuss diapers . We discuss the different cultures we have experienced and the weird and funny things that we have had.

So keep your dribbling pity for those men who are frightened of women and like to keep them imprisoned by some ancient traditional assumption. i have been free to shape my own life and I dont regret anything.
Reread your OP load of bollox and think again.

 

Then why the anger?

 

Reread your OP.
You don't speak for anyone but yourself and what you thought in that post is bollox.

 

If you actually believed this ****, and you don't, you'd be (conservatively) sending out dozens of paternity checks.

 

I have no idea what you mean. I have been able to work all my life, had no fiscal drag of children, took early retirement, own my own home mortgage free and have never taken out a loan or received an inheritance, and can support myself. Why on earth would I spend my time trying to depend on someone else?
I found myself in a position not of my making and chose to make the best of it. It has been a fascinating ride.

 

This was in reference to the OP.

 

And this your rationale for why you became angry...because some guy you do not know [who only speaks for himself] said something with which you don't agree?

There are 8B people on the planet and most likely you would disagree with the vast majority of them [in many, many ways]. So what? Isn't everybody entitled to their opinion? Why would you participate in a forum such as this if you were not interested in other people's opinions? Do you expect to convince everybody else that you are right?

I enjoy those who have different opinions than mine [particularly if they can express themselves with skill]. After all, what's the point of preaching to the choir?

 

I didn't understand your comment any more than Pixie did.

 

Best if you stay on topic. You wouldn't sound so pathetic.
I see absolutely.no reason for your insistence on making this subject personal to me.
I told you what I think about your OP.
instead of defending it you turned it into a personal attack on me because I disagreed with you.
Women are not bound by nature to be baby machines even if your wife was.
And that is my last word on the subject.

 

I asked you before and will ask you again to please not participate in my threads.

Good luck to you.

 

Run this by your daughters and then get back to us.....if you're still alive.

 

You can ask all you like.
I tend to agree with the requests of those I respect.
I make no promises or deny myself the freedom of speech men have. Like the OP.
How dare you suggest nature declares women must reproduce.
What century do you live in?

 

Do you really believe that everybody thinks like you...has the same fears...cannot even confront different ideas without being triggered like this?

 

IOW, how dare I have an opinion different from yours? How do you make it from day to day if you can't calmly deal with chatting [about rather innocuous topics] with someone you don't even know?

 

Triggered? You would rather your thinking not be questioned. Just shut up girl and go make a baby? You're in the wrong forum.
Of course not everyone thinks like me and in your case your thinking is rare in the 21st century, but not so much in the 19th. I suggested you run your thoughts by your girls to get the up date on this century.
What is the male of the species “natural” job. It is to impregnate as many women as he can. To spread his DNA far and wide. His mating strategy is quite different than the female’s. I am sure you are advocating for that.

 

What a load of uneducated crap. It is one thing to believe whatever you wish, whether it is based on anything or not, but to attempt to pass such ignorance as some universal truth is utter stupidity.

 

ISTM you spend your days insulting women.
Hardly and innocuous topic though YOU may think women are an innocuous subject.
Pfffft.

 

It's been part of our nature that some of us don't reproduce. In fact that's part of many species.

 

Thank you for your kindness and insight.

 

Go away.

 

Please explain.

 

Reality bites eh?

 

Explain what? A percentage of the population doesn't mate what's to explain?

 

Thanks again for your kindness and insight.