What do women want?

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  1. ChrisL

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    That's not true. It's that they really are not as much "nice guys" as they say or believe they are. Lol. NOBODY likes to be treated like crap.
     
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    There are some nice guys out there who by chance or circumstance have been inadvertently seen as Bad Guys but that soes not change the fact they are nice.

    And although most people do not want to be treated like crap there are always that frindge element.

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    Just lousy female intuition, like usual.
     
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    Yet so many stay in relationships where they seem to constantly be running into doors or falling down the steps. I think that's why makeup was invented.
     
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    Men who do that should be exterminated.

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    I think men who have that problem may still be, corrigible, and just need some nice, but firm, corrections women to help correct their behavior.
     
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    In high school they gravitate toward bad boys who'll talk them out of their shorts, IMO. Nice guys finish last.
     
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    i thought it meant nice guys get the convenience, if not the easiness.
     
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    In high school some gravitate toward bad boys who they know will put out....girls have sex drives , too! :eekeyes:
     
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    Whatever they claim they want - it's not what they really want. Nobody knows.
     
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    women also know how to talk and make appointments.
     
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    Girls want adventure and excitement.
    Women want kindness and commitment.
    Wives want respect and love.
     
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    I am Genetically Hardwired to be protective of women.

    There is no excuse.

    Termination necessary.

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    What do most women want? They want men to quit declaring what women want.....
     
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    A square ottoman to replace the half round ottoman on a curved sectional. NUTS. Doesn't matter that that would be wasting money and time to screw up a perfectly good sectional.
     
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    I find that most of them are completely clueless when it comes to what I want. ;)
     
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    Why can't we have adventure, excitement, kindness, commitment, respect, and love?
     
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    Well, I can't comment on what other women want, but I would like a guy who can be himself and not feel the need to play silly games. I can't tell you how many times I've read comments from men who act as if they are 16 years old with the game playing. Such as, to say that they pretend to not care or pretend that they are not interested, even such things as to actually put the moves on the woman's friend just to make the woman that they desire jealous, and other such ridiculous and juvenile things. This might be something that can get into the head of a very insecure person or a very young person, but that doesn't work with secure, confident REAL women. ;) We will just be like, "okay fine" and then move on. Don't know what you guys think you are going to accomplish with such behaviors.
     
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    You can....I stated what they "Want".
     
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    Well, I don't think you or I know what ALL women want. I'm sure we all want different things. Anyways, speaking for myself, I want ALL of those things. You separated them, as if to say only "girls" want adventure and excitement and only women want stability and commitment. That doesn't describe what I want. :)
     
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    Perhaps, you are a woman who acts like a girl looking to be a wife someday?
     
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    I just don't see why it can't be both? I have to settle for one or the other? A boring guy who is loyal, or an (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*) who is exciting? I think there is a happy medium.
     
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    There is...I pretty much just said as much. You CAN have it all, you can want it all, you can expect it all, and you can dream of it all.....what you cannot do is sit back and wait for it all. It is also important to consider the other side of the coin here....Likely the man who has all those things you hope for would KNOW he deserves someone who is not whining about not having it.
     
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    Huh? Your last statement makes no sense. Who is whining?

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    I'm simply saying that ladies don't have to choose between boring and loyal or adventurous and a jerk. There are guys who can be both, adventurous, exciting, kind and loyal. The guys who think you have to choose between one or the other ARE one or the other. :D
     
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    Nevermind...have a nice day:smile:
     
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