http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-18565/10-myths-about-healthy-relationships.html I found this interesting and wanted to make it available for others who might also find it helpful.
Actually I would like to have a girlfriend that shares some of my interests so we can do things with each other. I don't think it's enjoyable for either to do something with their loved one that they, well, jsut don't have an itnerest in it. Like taking a wealthy elitist snob to a demolition derby.