i mean i know the purpose of the party is for the groom/bride tohave fun on their last day of being free, but ive seen so many scenarios of the groom/bride end up sleepin with the hired entertainment, more the groom than the bride. your thoughts?
I think it's a minute percentage where the happens. It depends on the couple and their level of communication and strength of relationship. It's not like temptation is some uncontrollable beast that cannot be slain. It's a matter of setting and respecting boundaries. People who don't have that probably won't stay married anyway.
I never understood the need to have a final night of "freedom" before getting married. If you think marriage is such a constrictive negative force upon your personal liberty, stay single and living in mommy's basement. Oh wait, that's what we do see from "men" these days, isn't it? Grow up people.