"Black women are the worst stewards of children on the planet" ~Tommy Sotomayor

#TheLargerIssue #Fatherlessness #ChildNeglectMaltreatment #MentalHealth #Solutions

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Hello, my friends. If you are a caring, reasonably responsible American citizen or foreign born resident genuinely interested in understanding, as well as improving 'race relations' in our ever-evolving, imperfect, often hypocritical American society, I believe Americans sharing videos to what is unofficially labeled as the "Black Sector of YouTube" offer a variety of insights on this topic.

One of these Americans is Arizona resident Mr. Tommy Sotomayor, a controversial, veteran YouTube social commentator, as well as the creator and CEO of SotomayorENT.com.

"Black women are the worst stewards of children on the planet" ~Tommy Sotomayor

Keeping it REAL, admitted 'Childhood Trauma' (#ACEs) & Child Sexual Abuse victim Tommy Sotomayor is an often crude, angry, argumentative, sometimes paranoid man, who like many #FATHERLESS citizens raised, nurtured and socialized by single mothers, matured into a apparent emotionally troubled teen and adult lacking respect for women.

Unfortunately, THROUGH NO FAULT OF HIS OWN, young Tommy experienced 'Childhood Trauma' aka 'Adverse Childhood Experiences' (#ACEs), an easily preventable, though potentially life scarring medical disease and condition that medical doctors and researchers around the world believe is negatively impacting the emotional well-being and physical health of children, teens and ADULTS residing in EVERY community on our ever-evolving planet!

A few of these medical professionals are Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MD, pediatrician & CEO of the 'Center For Youth Wellness. Dr. Robert K. Ross, MD, President and CEO of The California Endowment and Dr. Bruce Perry, MD, Ph.D, Senior Fellow of the Child Trauma Academy in Houston, Texas and an Adjunct Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago, Illinois.

Each of these medical doctors believe a Worldwide Movement is required, educating our planet's population of primary child caregivers about our planet's #1 GLOBAL*CHILD CARE* PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS.

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Getting back to Tommy. Due to his poor, often demeaning attitude toward women, Tommy is reviled as a hater by many black or American citizens of African descent.

My question for Tommy's detractors, "Why aren't you denouncing or hating-on the population of mostly single girls and women primarily responsible for creating and perpetuating America's Generational and SYSTEMIC Culture of black or African American Child Abuse and Emotional Neglect and Maltreatment, aka a Culture of POVERTY.

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I am referring to a Culture of Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect, Abandonment and Maltreatment responsible for popular American urban story-TRUTH-tellers and 'Childhood Trauma' (#ACEs) victims the late Tupac Shakur (born 1971) and Mr. Barack "My Brother's Keeper" Obama White House guest and friend Kendrick Lamar (born 1987) vividly describing in their American art and interviews the "T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E." and "Good Kid, m.A.A.d. City" Child Abuse Cultures prevalent in far too many American communities.

I am referring to a Culture of Systemic and Generational CHILD ABUSE that THROUGH NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN, deprived Tupac and Kendrick, their childhood friends, as well as many of their elementary and JHS classmates from experiencing a SAFE, fairly or wonderfully happy American kid childhood all Americans have a right, as well as ABSOLUTE NEED to enjoy during a critical period of childhood development!

Instead of hating-on Tommy for denigrating black American women as less than human b*tches and hoes, much like President and Mrs. Obama's music making urban TRUTH-teller friends or WH guests, how about learning WHY Tommy and far too many black American men and women are hating-on RATCHET 'people and community harming' female behaviors?

"Black American Men 'Take Control of Emotionally Troubled Women'"



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In this thread I will be sharing for discussion, video broadcasts that include live call-in shows, one-on-one discussions and guest panel discussions produced by Tommy Sotomayor as well as members of Tommy's "SotoNation."

Please be aware Tommy's style is often abrasive, crude, sometimes downright mean and nasty. :NSFW:

However, after spending the past five or more years witnessing quite a few of Tommy's countless broadcasts (many that have been flagged and deleted), I have no doubts his rants and opinions about issues affecting Americans of all backgrounds, particularly black or Americans citizens of African descent, are well-intentioned, mostly factual, as well as logical arguments.

As previously stated, Tommy's opinions have upset quite a few of our American neighbors, especially a significant population of PRO BLACK minded Americans wishing to IGNORE 'people and community harming dysfunctions' currently affecting the Quality of Life for far too many American citizens of color.

Dysfunctional 'PRO BLACK American' Logic Succinctly Explained By Social Commentator Mr. David Carroll



I'm referring to preventable 'people and community harming human dysfunction' that I personally witnessed during 80s-90s when I spent the first twelve years of my police career as a uniform cop, robbery and homicide investigator serving the Brooklyn , NY neighborhoods where young Childhood Trauma (#ACEs) victims Shawn 'Jay-Z' Carter and the late Gun Violence victim Christopher 'Biggie Smalls' Wallace were raised, nurtured and socialized.

Fortunately, not all PRO BLACK minded American citizens are quick to denounce or disparage Tommy Sotomayor as a "C00N or SELL-OUT".

In the following two broadcasts, Sa Neter, creator and leader of the 'House of Konsciousness' located in Harlem, NY, speaks about Tommy, as well as WITH Tommy.

"NYC Pro Black 'House of Konsciousness' leader Sa Neter Denounces 'Black Crabs in a Barrel'"



"Sa Neter And Tommy Sotomayor 1 On 1 Conversation" Streamed live on Nov 9, 2018 by BLACKNEWS102



In this broadcast Melanin Sut Tehk, addresses hypocrisy and dysfunction within the PRO BLACK community, as well as sharing her thoughts about Tommy Sotomayor.

What I found revealing is Melanin Sut Tehk speaking about WHO is primarily responsible for inspiring much of the hateful cussing, as well as causing most of the drama and chaos in far too many American communities.

"Tommy Sotomayor & Pro Black Female Guest Talk Parenting Child Abuse Neglect"



My friends, sadly, large numbers of illogical thinking PRO BLACK minded Americans have declared a HATE War on America.

They are hating-on successful, accomplished black American citizens, they are hating-on American, as well as foreign born black people failing to embrace a monolithic PRO BLACK mindset, they are hating-on Caucasian Americans for creating what is perceived as an un-evolved 'white-privileged' society.

Unfortunately large numbers of perfectly healthy American newborns are being raised to HATE by a population of single mothers who Tommy Sotomayor and his supporters recognize are doing great emotional harm to our Nation's most cherished assets.

I am assuming many of these single mothers belong to a population of girls and women who President and Mrs. Obama's American urban-TRUTH-tellers friends and WH guests hatefully denigrate as less than human B*THCES and HOES, THOTS or RATCHET females undeserving of being treated with basic human respect.

"Emotionally ill American Mom Sharing Her illness With Her Children and Police"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0_WjXcsaTA/

In addition to a large population hateful PRO BLACK minded single moms and their male supporters, pejoratively known as SIMPS, there is a smaller population of PRO BLACK minded citizens exploiting cries of Racism for their own $personal gain$ and notoriety, while willfully ignoring the 'people and community harming dysfunction' that Tommy Sotomayor and many of his live call-in show guests speak about.

In closing this writing, I'm asking you intelligently examine the message about HATE that popular American urban-TRUTH-teller, as well as Gun Violence and 'Childhood Trauma' (#ACEs) victim Tupac Shakur is conveying in his T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect, Abandonment & Maltreatment *AWARENESS-PREVENTION* concept. A Child Abuse admonishment applying to American and foreign born citizens of ALL backgrounds:

T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. - "The HATE U Give Little Infants Fvvks *EVERYONE"* ~Tupac Shakur

“We need more people who care; you know what I’m saying? We need more women, mothers, fathers, we need more of that…” ~Tupac Shakur, American urban story-TRUTH-teller

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Hello. On November 4, 2016, Dr. Oya Maat, Ph.D. and Tommy Sotomayor, 'Agree Child Abuse and Emotional Neglect/Maltreatment Needs To Be Recognized and Prevented'


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Streamed live on Nov 5, 2016 - The Destruction Of The Black Family w/ Dr Maat, Charnee Bowens & Riziki El - 1 on 1 with Tommy Sotomayor (part 1)



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Takes a strong woman to raise one of those children - especially raising them alone, which is unfortunately so often the case.

 

I would say it takes a strong woman of any race to raise any child on their own. I think only Asians do it well, mostly the eastern Asians though but that's cause they are on top of their kids to get good grades and not just waiting for their kids to get into trouble before the beatings start.

 

#TheLargerIssue #SingleParenting #Fatherlessness #ChildNeglectMaltreatment #MentalHealth #Solutions

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Hello, WJ. Regarding a parent or parents beating kids, are you familiar with professor, author and violence researcher Dr. Stacey Patton's book "Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America"?

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/10/opinion/sunday/stop-beating-black-children.html

https://theundefeated.com/features/how-about-sparing-the-kid-and-not-using-the-rod/

The following are quotes and excerpts from Child Abuse, Maltreatment survivor Dr. Stacey Patton's book "Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America"

"I would have never been able to do this work if I had come into this world with a mother who stayed, who nurtured me in a healthy way." ~Dr. Stacey Patton, PhD.,

The Undefeated: 'Are there any concepts in your book that may be new to readers?'

Dr. Patton: "I think that some of the data. For example, in the past 10 years, if you look at the annual child maltreatment reports that are put out by the Association for Children and Families, African-Americans have killed over 3,600 children.

A lot of people will say, ‘It’s better for me to whup my child than the police,’ but when you look at the data, yes, we’ve seen instances of state violence against unarmed black children, but when you look at the data for the past 10 years, African-Americans kill an average of 360 children a year.

If you line that up against the police killings, it pales in comparison. African-American children are more at risk of being assaulted, physically injured or killed by their own parents than by the police. There’s that."

The Undefeated: 'What cultural value do you see in your stories?'

Dr. Patton: "That it’s going to upend some cultural myths. It’s going to upturn those. That I’m airing dirty laundry, so a lot of people aren’t going to like that."

The Undefeated: 'What was the hardest part of writing this book?'

Dr. Patton: "It was listening to the testimonies of people who talk about the pain they suffered during their own childhood, and how so many people couldn’t even talk about this because it was considered culturally taboo to do so. It’s disrespectful to their mothers and other elders. It was listening to their tears. Sitting in other people’s pain was really difficult. It was difficult for me too. I have a whole chapter on the rise of digi-punishment, parents who pick up their cellphone and record themselves standing there beating their kid. Watching those over a period to analyze them, listening to black comedians who joked about this kind of stuff. Kevin Hart jokes about punching his infant daughter in the throat. Bernie Mac jokes about beating kids until the white meat shows."

The Undefeated: 'What has been the most difficult part of your entire journey?'

"I think for me was being an adoptee and never getting to meet my biological mother, not being able to ever ask her certain questions, never knowing what she smelled like, what it had felt like to be hugged by her, never hearing her voice, never having that connection. Every year I blamed her. I was like, ‘If she hadn’t given me up, I would have never gone through all of this,’ but I’ve evolved spiritually to understand that from a karmic level, a spiritual perspective, we choose our lives. My spiritual adviser explained that to me.

I would have never been able to do this work if I had come into this world with a mother who stayed, who nurtured me in a healthy way. I wouldn’t have been able to do this work, so I’ve evolved beyond the anger, the sense of victimization, the abandonment, the ‘Oh, why me’ to an appreciation. There’s nothing to forgive. She provided the best hope for me to get here, and I realize that sometimes the only investment that a parent can give you is life. That was hard for me, but I found peace with my mother and my father. I thank them. I’m grateful for my life, for a mind, a body. I understand why I’m here. I’ve never known them, but I love them for that."

Patton recently wrote that “black children are also disproportionately likely to suffer treatment at home that’s so bad that they want to flee."

"In 2015, black kids had the highest rate of abuse and neglect, at 14.5 per 1,000 children, compared with 8.1 per 1,000 for white children, according to the Children’s Bureau, part of the Department of Health and Human Services."

"More than 3,600 black children in the United States have died as a result of maltreatment in the past decade, a rate three times higher than for all other racial groups. Suicide rates among elementary-age black children have nearly doubled since the 1990s, while the rates for white children have fallen, according to a 2015 report from the Journal of the American Medical Association.”"

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WJ, I write about and share evidence of America’s MUCH IGNORED, oppressive, potentially life scarring black or African American *MATERNAL CHILD CARE* #T_H_U_G_L_I_F_E NATIONAL PUBLIC HEALTH CRISIS that I, as well as a growing number of my reasonably responsible, caring, concerned American and foreign born neighbors believe is impeding our black or American neighbors of African descent from experiencing the equality and respect all peaceful, reasonably responsible Americans are entitled to enjoy.

"The Hate U Give Little Infants Fvvks *EVERYONE"* ~Tupac Shakur

"We need more people who care; you know what I'm saying? We need more women, mothers, fathers, we need more of that..." ~Tupac Shakur

Unfortunately, before he developed the confidence to properly promote his #THUGLIFE Child Abuse *AWARENESS-PREVENTION* concept, Tupac was brutally murdered by OTHER emotionally or mentally ill victims of America's Culture of African American Child Abuse, Neglect and Emotional Maltreatment evolving from America's multi-generational, ignorant, once legal Culture of Racism.

(*May 18, 2015 - Rise in Suic!de by Black Children Surprises Researchers - The New York Times*)

Peace.
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"I agree that SINGLE MOTHERS are DESTROYING their sons." ~Neko Cheri


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"BLACK MOTHERS CORRUPTING THEIR DAUGHTER'S" ~LadyMocha


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Its not really a black thing, its a single parent thing. Most of the time when I watch my wife or when I was with my ex-wife, they both will let the kids bend or break the rules so many times before they snap and finally discipline. They always would get on to me because I didn't bend and was quick to correct the child. When I talk about "whuppings", I am not talking about for every little thing, but for correcting a behavior the child knows no to do but chooses to do anyways. My wife tried to potty train our child with the suckers and candy stuff, but the kid just kept going in the diaper or undies. When I suggested a "pop", my wife thought I was cruel. After only 2 times of my popping our child, she no longer wet her self knowing that wasn't the correct behavior. Its one thing to have a punishment of "no candy", but that's just the normal setting. There must be a negative for bad behavior. I think most women just don't hold the conviction to punish consistently. I also think kids typically see their mothers as nurturing more than disciplinary. I also think because most black kids are living with single mothers, that's the point in where most blacks grow up without the respect for authority cause mostly all they see is their mothers in that authority position and associate authority with the push over their mothers typically were.

 

Hello, WJ. Thank you for taking the time to write about yourself, while totally ignoring the CHILD ABUSE research conducted by Child Abuse victim Dr. Patton.

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Black American Men 'Take Control of Emotionally Troubled Women'



Peace.

 

I agree, someone on my FB feed posted something about "White women are taught how to keep and man. Black women are taught how to survive without one". There is also a meme of couples of every race and the man is bench pressing what looks like the world. The white, Asian and Latino women are all giving their man encouragement about how they can do it and how they got support. The panel with the black couple shows the woman saying her man aint **** and turning away from him. Every man is struggling, but its the culture on how treat him is different. Since LBJ, blacks have been incentivized to be single parents. You get more in welfare handouts when you are a single mother, makes you feel more "independent".

 

#TheLargerIssue #SingleParenting #Fatherlessness #ChildNeglectMaltreatment #MentalHealth #Solutions

NSFW Tommy Sotomayor Laments Criminal, Emotionally Ill Child Support Payments Mom

WARNING: NSFW MADNESS!

"ATW#49 She Lied & Said 1st Baby Was His Now Pregnant Again Clowning Him Online 4 Trusting Her!" 62,542 views Streamed live on Nov 15, 2018 by TNN Raw 3



Hello, despite offering many moments of genuine, sincere criticisms, I'm kinda embarrassed sharing this Tommy Sotomayor broadcast because imo his juvenile madness is shining through.

However, the criminal, blood boiling 'ratchet female' madness he features and addresses in this heartbreaking broadcast should be an embarrassment to the entire human race. #MentalIllness

If you care to watch the original 14m10s broadcast published in Facebook's 'Fvck Child Support Payments' group, open this link:

https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=275195683083203

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"Mental illness in Black Communities" Published on Nov 10, 2010 www.dawsondenise.com


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"Black Women, Suicide, Depression, Self Harm & Mental Health; PSA from Abiola"


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"How Black Community's Ignorance of Mental Illness Almost Killed Me" ~Law of Polaris -North Star-


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The late 'Childhood Trauma' (#ACEs) victim Tupac Shakur's T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. Child Abuse, Emotional Neglect, Abandonment & Maltreatment *AWARENESS-PREVENTION* Public Service Announcement applies to American and foreign born citizens of ALL backgrounds:

T.H.U.G.L.I.F.E. - "The HATE U Give Little Infants Fvvks *EVERYONE"* ~Tupac Shakur
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"I would have never been able to do this work if I had come into this world with a mother who stayed, who nurtured me in a healthy way." ~Dr. Stacey Patton, Ph.D., Professor, Author, Child Abuse & Violence Researcher
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Introducing Child Abuse Awareness & Education Advocate, pediatrician Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, MD, FAAP, MPH, Founder and CEO of the 'Center for Youth Wellness':

https://www.makers.com/profiles/591f25476c3f64632d4fb85c/
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Mirror upload:

"Said 1st Baby Was His Now Pregnant Again Clowning Him Online 4 Trusting Her!" aka "Tommy Sotomayor Laments Criminal, Emotionally Ill Child Support Payments Mom"

https://www.bitchute.com/video/TLb4XFqw4U0g/

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