Hey dudes, you feeling cool? well i got some little guys that don't feel so cool! i want them to feel cool too, so, that is why i am writing this. What makes you cool, man? is it a state of belief from yourself, or like something you wake up to? i mean, do you just be cool or not? and, more importantly, what is cool? I suppose that the best way we can answer this is basically there are many ways to be cool. taylor swift is cool because she likes action! miley cyrus slammed her action, and she is clearly cool! then there is like bad ass thugs that walk around looking for trouble! so, basically, it is a state of inner peace that shines through - if you love yourself you will be cool, unless others don't love you, sheesh, whatever! But, if you were to observe that being cool is like being popular, then it would be easy to say that you can work at being popular. if you get something you like, and you think others might like it, doing or wearing or saying it could improve your popularity, yes? copying these things is one way, but coming up with them on your own is better! if you were to try to get attention, you can get it right, or wrong, basically, it works on it 'identifying' with certain people. Who do you want to identify with? do you want to be a thug? that is easy! do you want to be a model? that is harder. do you want to be a crazy idiot? that is also easy - all these things take first is confidence, and, confidence comes from inside. your parents can try to tell you that you are cool if you are young, and often it works, but as you grow up you need the acceptance of the people around you more. So, if you get some idea about what a cool person would do, try it! all ti takes is to do it - don't worry, i know how it is to be a young person, we all been there. maybe if you were to not be yourself, you will find that others like you more, and, not being yourself doesn't mean that you are unhappy, of course. so maybe you can, for example, bend over backwards for people? then they will like you more, and if they don't bend for you, you can take yourself, the bender, to someone else you like more? of course, everyone will like to have you around if you make them laugh, or, listen to them, yes?
