I am thinking of breaking up with my GF of 2 half years. She didn't really do anything to me, she just gets on my nerves sometimes. She has an autistic kid that sometimes never shuts up and never listens to her. She has never cheated or me, has always been nice to me, always gave me the best. Yet somehow, I want to break up with her this christmas because I feel that we have lost something, but I've realized these last couple of days that I do love/like her because I have cried all day today. Just thinking about breaking up with her is hard on me, she's my best friend. And I don't think she deserves that because she has never done anything wrong to me. what should I do? is it just my temper?
A very wise friend of mine once told me this: Change the way you think about it. If you want to stay, you will...if you want to leave, you will. But be honest with her. While she may not like it much, later she may appreciate the honesty more than the passing of friendship.
well, you better beg her to take you back or someone like me will be telling her what a jerk you are all night long on the 31st.
Either way she will scratch his eyes out,,,you NEVER break up around Christmas,,,nope! It's a rule. Unless of course he's trying to cheap out on a gift, and if she figures that out then she will kick him in the nuts too.... This is good advice Jed if your listening, wear a Cup......
if he knows what's good for him, he'll come up with a pair of diamond studs, 1/2 TCW or better, and claim he was roofied and doesn't remember.
I'''''''''d wear a cup anyway......Just say'n....He may weaken at the knees and buy season Star war convention tickets instead. This he has been known to do, among others... Did you know that Jed get's all his important life long decision making advice right here at PF...huh? I got a feeling this wont turn out good,,,nope! If he writes his autobiography some day he should call it..........................''Off Topic''
In all honesty... Stop the drama, and don't get Hollywood get a grip on your life... Life doesn't turn out to be some film...
its not about you..its about her and any children involved whether than are hers or yours..only a selfish person thinks the world revolVes around themselves..time to grow up and become an adult and take care of her and the kid..or let her find someone better
Break up but don't burn any bridges and stay friends, because she isn't satisfying your needs apparently.
I think you should definitely break up with her for her sake. You sound like a self centered worm to me.
I like this post , It is a package deal when you date a girl with a kid, or you could just be alone and lonely , trust me it is not fun
Exactly. Frankly.....I wonder why you would come here and ask a bunch of strangers for advice on something like this. I would say- any decision you make right now would probably be brash because this time of year tends to be stressful on relationships. But you should find someone you can really talk about this in person- a good friend, a minister- not us.
Frankly I think this is the perfect place to air any queries on important, life changing personal decisions. Everyone, tell me your business and then let me pass judgement on you,
Go get a hotter chick with a (*)(*)(*)(*)ty attitude and realize the grass isn't always greener. She will move on to a nicer guy then you, which is probably good for her, and you can get dumped by the chick that you think turns you on more. Good times.
