So, I don't get it, why would feminist try to stop MRAs when feminists say everything in our society is there because of patriarchy? I know, that sounds counter intuitive, but hear me out. MRAs want to reform the divorce codes that heavily favor women getting the kids in a divorce. Feminists claim that women get custody of the kids cause of the patriarchy putting the stigma of women being the better caregivers. MRAs want to be able to get some help with domestic abuse centers since there are roughly ZERO for men in the US. Feminists believe men and women should be "treated equally". MRAs want more funding for things like prostate cancer which is more deadly to men than breast cancer is to women. There are more, but I would like to understand why feminist want to shut down MRA's, especially when MRAs aren't looking to close down anything women have gotten through 1st wave feminist efforts.