Ugh, Date night, once again

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  1. Agrona

    Agrona New Member

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    You first
    I don't argue with anyone that doesn't call me out first.
    The "world" is not out to get me, but some of the more conservative posters here sure seem to be.
    If it's so stressful for you here, why do you keep coming back?
     
  2. Brewskier

    Brewskier Well-Known Member

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    Why would someone get that feeling? Probably the delusional and wishful thinking on the part of a bitter loner. But you're right, not gonna happen. Being married tends to prevent such a possibility. Don't worry, though. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
     
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    Whatever you say.
     
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    Based upon your photo, assuming that is you.
    You're an attractive young woman and probably guys will notice that...so perhaps you need to "front" this
    tough girl thing as some sort of barrier to unwanted attention. I understand that.

    However looks will only take a person so far in life...at some point a personality needs to be cultivated.

    You catch more flies with honey, than vinegar.
     
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    Then find charley the tuna and leave me out of it altogether.
     
  6. Brewskier

    Brewskier Well-Known Member

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    It's a 9 year old photo. It was chosen for a reason.
     
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    Apparently he's dead, though. Remember? If you got any other living suggestions, let me know.
     
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    Got it. Well, how much can a pereson deteriorate in 9 years?

    Weight gain maybe.
     
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    Grokmaster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Oh...you're sooooo fearsome...yaaaaaawwwwnnnnnn....
     
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    Lots can happen in 9 years. Maybe that's where the bitterness and asexuality is coming from.
     
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    Grokmaster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Maybe "she" just can't get along with anyone....?
     
  12. Brewskier

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    There's usually a reason for that, though. Some issue causing a defense mechanism to kick in.
     
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    Grokmaster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    How so? Truck drivers , musicians, and other travelers manage to "keep the insurance" up, while not being there. What kind of ridiculous homeowners policy do you have...or have "dreamed up".

    Never heard of not being allowed ot leave the premises,as long as you pay the premiums. The real estate agent can check on the property...if he REALLY wants to sell it.

    Sounds like bullcrap to me....
     
  14. Brewskier

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    I wouldn't take too much stock in what these people say about themselves online. In their quest for attention, they like to tell stories.
     
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    Grokmaster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Ignorant of drugs, we see.

    LSD is NOT an opiate,or synthetic opiate. It is not addictive. It IS a heavily powerful psychotropic,which was developed for "mind control" crap, supposedly.

    These characteristics have proven VERY EFFECTIVE (so far) in treating alchholics, as thye experienc "CATHARSIS" after ONE DOES, typically, and gain the focus to change their habits.

    Not for everyone, but it IS working...="point".
     
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    "UGH?"...They why go out in the first place? Moreover why would you go with a "stranger?" Are you an Escort or something? Is that your job?
     
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    And why would they want to tell people they don't care about online all about it?
     
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    My looks don't mean a whit to me, even though that's all men seem to care about, my job and now, my animals are my care. The "tough"girl thing isn't an act, or a barrier, it's a necessity ( look to all the posts just on this threads about me). My personality seems to be good enough for my job opportunities and that's what matters right now
    And the honey/vinegar analogy doesn't quite work for me at present, maybe when I actively look for a relationship in the future
    Thanks for a thoughtful reply, without all the silliness (look to some of the posts after yours for that), and I apologize for the snarkiness before, guess it's just my tough girl thing.
     
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    Where is yours again, Mr stud-muffin?
     
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    How about one of your silly friends here? I'll bet they would be a blast with you.
     
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    Yea, that must be it. I weighed about 121 in that photo, now I weigh 126. You can even ask my doctor.
     
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    Good point...looking for business maybe?
     
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    Then again, maybe it's just you.
     
  24. Brewskier

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    I think it's straight up attention whoring. "I don't care what you think, but let me tell you all about it anyway".

    Looks like teenage angst and emo drama continues well into one's 30's for some people.
     
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    Apparently not anyone like you. You and your kind are one of the reasons men aren't a priority, and if you're all there is, they won't ever be.
     

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