But the woman is not thinking about what's best for her fetus. In fact, often she is not really thinking clearly at all. How else to explain all those women who bitterly regret their abortions?
and of course you can read every single woman's mind to know that they are not thinking about what is best, and for everyone of those women who regret their decision there are women who have no regrets at all. It is very degrading of you to assume that a women is not thinking clearly when making the decisions on abortion, yet you seem to think that she has the ability to make decisions for a child once born .. strange very strange.
Since "all those women who bitterly regret their abortions" don't exist, it is plain evidence that women are thinking quite clearly when they choose abortion. Besides regretting that a situation exists is not the same as regretting a decision to deal with it.