Why Most Marriages Are Sexless

I figure that it takes the average young woman three [maybe four] nanoseconds to figure out that she can mercilessly manipulate her new husband by weaponizing sex. Talk to any married guy and he will readily confirm this truth. It's just too easy for women [and perhaps it was similar to men who controlled the purse-strings].

The problem is that eventually this strategy backfires because at some point the guy will have had enough as managing sex [with his wife] simply isn't worth it anymore. Once he stops asking for sex, the woman becomes incensed and that's the end.

Another sexless marriage [or divorce].

 

In the old days, a woman's unwillingness to do her wifely duties was grounds for divorce. If the divorce was her fault, she wouldn't be able to take everything from him, like women do in a normal divorce these days.

Try suggesting that idea to most progressives these days and they will squeal and scream.

 

Or, maybe the men don't mind a sexless marriage anymore???

All the medications dumped in the water supplies for decades are finally taking effect in humans. Men might not have lost their enjoyment of sex, but that might not be the drive it once was.

 

Are heterosexual relationships really so contentious? I’ve been with my husband for seven years now and I’ve never felt like sex was weaponized or withheld.

 

Why do so many men assume that women don't want sex? Just because they don't want sex with you doesn't mean they don't want sex at all!

 

Tell me you are an angry incel, without telling me you are an angry incel.

 

Just don't get caught cheating in Texas. At Fault divorce is brutal on cheaters. It cost my wife $250k in our divorce and nobody respects her. She had to go find new friends. They didn't want her around their husbands.

 

or the man or woman is cheating on their partner

many men are choosing not to marry anymore, it's all risk for them and very little reward

you want sex, there is an app for that....

 

I'll give you a 1- for your witticism and a 0 for your comprehension.

 

Surely you must realize that a same sex relationship is likely to have very different dynamics from a typical male/female one. How could two guys "withhold" sex? That's strictly a woman's game.

 

Dude, you've literally argued that it should be illegal for a man to force himself on his wife if she says no. Literally. We talked about it at great length.

 

Men can say no to sex. It happens. And people pretending like it can't happen is one of the reasons that so many men don't report when they are raped.

 

Had I known that, I would have offered my first wife a vacation to Texas to get married!

 

People in the marriage get sex from someone else.

 

Ever see American History X or Deliverance?

 

Delete

 

I've seen both.

 

I'm in a male only relationship and yeah I could say no but I normally don't nor does my partner. There's no withholding sex to get what you want. It doesn't matter if you're angry at one another. No headache has ever stopped either of us.

Yeah we could say no but we don't.

 

Well that would be a dealbreaker. The way I date would have selected such women out though, and kind of has before but not by itself. Sex is not some chore she does on your behalf. For me, that would be a basic compatibility issue, and an unenthusiastic partner wouldn't hold much appeal over masturbating.

 

Porn has slowly but surely been taking over. It is estimated that 50% of men have sex [with a woman] less than once a year! Once AI is fully integrated into the whole porn thing, I believe women are going to be in serious trouble.

With technology on the cusp of creating lifelike AI dolls where men can order up whatever he likes, I can see where it is going to be almost impossible for guys to resist. Just the same, I would imagine the result will be horrific on all kinds of levels.

 

It is not unheard of that women change a tiny bit after marriage.

 

Men are for providing women are for consuming that's it. Once we made job status consumable women started consuming it.

 

I bow to your expertise on the subject.

 

Don't marry a democrat. Problem solved.

 

Tell me about it....

Back in my bicycle racing days I was kidnapped by a bunch of bachelorettes who made me dance in my underwear and then passed me around like a piece of meat ...

I still bear the emotional scars...