You Will Regret Your Abortion

All of your guesses are wrong. My aunt's abortion was perfectly legal. Her regret for having an abortion has nothing to do with the family's attitudes towards abortion. I can't say our family even has a consistent opinion about abortion. Most of her side of the family is not that religious. My personal influence on my aunt is nil, since I barely know her and haven't seen her for many years.

 

So, you're speaking for someone you admit you don't really know?

 

You are absolutely wrong!

If women who had an abortion go "balistic," it is probably a good thing they didn't have a child. . .because they probably had some mental issues to begin with!

And I really wonder where all that "knowledge" comes from? The Pope? the Catholic Church? The Bible?

Or personal experience?

 

So. . .you can determine that a person you hardly know, and haven't seen for years had her life RUINED because of an abortion?

Did SHE tell you she had an abortion?
Or did some "kind soul" revealed that for you, to brainwash you in the state of mind you are in today about legal abortions?

And, are you sure you have the right to spread that kind of information about a person whom you hardly know?

 

My father told me her story.

She had two marriages and two divorces during her "New York" days when she adopted the Manhattan lifestyle and the Manhatten lifestyle. At this time in her life, my aunt was unbearably elistist about New York and she practically ruined a trip to Disneyland because of it. She would not stop talking about how New York shows were better than Disney's Bear Country Jamboree.

During this time she also had an abortion. She never had any other living child.

She celebrates her dead child's birthdays. She mourns for him. She became a Christian, but God will not give her back her child.

 

1. So I may not be much of a legal person, but you are. Isn't this hearsey?
2. To my orginal question. Does your aunt have problems speaking or without internet connection?

 

I would not want to be in the position you people are in, defending the undefensible.

Do your liberal masters allow you any deviation from the party line on this issue?

I remember when many liberals were pro-life.

Over time, they all sold out their principles to the abortion factories who fund the Democratic party, but I still remember.

 

This is not a court of law.

But I'm not going to call up my aunt and bring up this topic so I can report to you what she said.

I do not know her well enough to bring up this kind of issue.

 

I don't think you understand. It's not what the initial poster is saying. A woman may never reveal that she may have had an abortion...so being persecuted by someone is not the issue. The issue is woman, coming to the realization of the importance she plays in the process of life, will judge herself more harshly than anyone else can. And where she may be okay with it in her youth, as she ages, the realization of her actions will haunt her all her days. THAT i believe is what he is saying.

 

As a lawyer, would you object to hearsey?

 

Well...being a male...this really wouldn't apply to me.

But I remember the greatest thread Politicalforum ever had....should men have an opinion about abortion thread...

Remember that?.....good time..good times.

 

Hearsay is an out of court statement proferred for the truth of the statement made.

We rely on hearsay for almost everything we learn.

This is a rule of evidence in a courtroom with no applicability to real life situtations.

 

I'm not wrong. These people are ultra-defensive, burst into tears, beg people to stop talking about it and are a basket case. Its happened in cases where the subject is brought up---and they successfully bring the subject to a close in no time.

Abortion is NOT a subject that women who have had an abortions can deal with.

 

I have already provided examples of men traumatized by abortion, including a suicide.

 

Then what exactly destroyed her life?

And frankly...how do you know it weas destroyed, if you don't have any contact with her anymore?

Maybe she got over it completely, and you'r just projecting, and thinking she should still feel bad.

 

That's gotta be xtremely rare.

I do however...remember being traumatized by my ex wife's miscarriage...but I certainly lived to accept it as God's will, after I was intitially yacked off at God for the whole affair

 

You admit you were traumatized by a miscarriage but deny men could be traumatized by an abortion.

You people sure are bullheaded.

 

Do you support the death penalty?

 

It always amazes me about how men can ever claim to know what a woman is thinking.

Let alone....the intricacies of the psychology in play when a woman has an abortion.

I think we're all hearing a few things from the pro life men here today on this thread.

1. Projection...men think because the pro life lobby has told them to be outraged and saddened...that the women who have abortions MUST feel the same way, or they're evil/

2. People are just making stuff up...as they do so often on and internet site like this.

 

excellent post.

 

I really don't understand your post. Do you think that I am a guy? Abortion is a topic that comes up between women...not so much between a group that includes men and women. Since I'm not a guy....I don't know if a group of guys will bring it up.

And I don't make things up...even on the internet.

It might interest you to know--that I was pro-choice until I played with the idea of an abortion--but had my child. I went pro-life when I realized that if I had an abortion my son wouldn't exist. This is how views change on the subject---experience, education and wisdom. Once a life is extinquished---all the change of heart won't bring that life back.

 

That's not what I asked you. What I asked you was "As a Lawyer, would you object to hearsey?

 

I was traumatized when my ex wife started to misscarry in the ER waiting room, and in the ER before they gave the morphine, and she was in pain....but I have no long term sadness for the fetus.

Things happen for a reason.

I think that pro life people are not considering the fact that a 1st or 2nd trimester fetus, has never really "lived" in a sense.

"Living" humans, IMHO...have memories and sentience. That's why it's okay t pull the plug on people if they lose that.

The world has enough people in it, and IMHO, to mourn the loss of a 1st or 2nd trimester fetus is no different than mouring every sperm cell or egg ever produced.

 

and the same goes for you. How do you set yourself up as the know it all on what women are thinking?

 

By letting women decide?