Your child is sleeping with a member of a different race. What do you do?

Discussion in 'Race Relations' started by Anders Hoveland, Aug 14, 2011.

  1. Yoruichi878

    Yoruichi878 New Member

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    Anyway you cut it, there are wayyy more black on non-black crimes than there are non-black on black crimes annually.

    To me, the past is the past and it shouldn't have anymore bearing on the present and the future. If black parents just raised their kids better today, their communities could change in a relatively short time.

    That's my point with most asians. They feel shame and actually CARE about their image and what people think of them. Compare that to many blacks who don't care AT ALL and have little diginity or self respect and they keep committing crime and doing other things that make their race look bad.

    But then if anyone should ever call them out on it, they call you a 'racist'. That's like a get out of jail card for them. No matter what they do, just call whoever challenges them a racist to gloss over whatever bad behavior blacks display.

    Crime is relatively low in most parts of Asia despite the majority of them living in worse poverty than any black American as ever experienced in the last several decades.

    Of course crime goes up during times of hardship and instability, but my question is why when most people in western countries and asia can live civvily and in relative peace that blacks can't do the same ANYWHERE?


    And going by many blacks and their behaviour, most really aren't that educated. As I said, many blacks don't seem to reason, but rather act out physically which is why so many of them die over nothing incidents.

    And just to keep a tab on the flash mob phenomena, it happened AGAIN yesterday, this time in DC with an ALL FEMALE black mob this time robbing a convienence store. What's the total now? A dozen or more black flash mobs vs ZERO non-black mobs? And I love how black people interviewed TRY AND JUSTIFY THE CRIME rather than speak out against it. And this is why very little changes in black communities and they're falling behind.

    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhLn3zRhGFA"]Black female mob hits DC - YouTube[/ame]
     
  2. cassandrabandra

    cassandrabandra New Member

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    that would make sense.
     
  3. Brewskier

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    I don't mind interracial relationships for the most part. However, to be honest, if I had a daughter, I would be concerned if she all of a sudden had a black boyfriend. If he is a good person, then I will understand, but my first thought would be that he is just using her for sex. White girls are like trophies to many blacks. It's a symbolic "(*)(*)(*)(*) you" to whites — a kind of retribution for years of injustice.
     
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    As a parent, you have every right to encourage your child to marry within her race (or outside of it) and no one--not the schools, not the PC police, not your neighbors, not the liberal establishment--have any business interjecting.

    If you don't feel comfortable about your white daughter dating black men you are not required to explain yourself to people outside the family. It is your prerogative as her parent. It DOES NOT make you a racist to insist that your daughter date and marry within her own race.
     
  5. micfranklin

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    Whether or not they listen to a given parent's encouragement is another matter.
     
  6. Shangrila

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    Would be nice if the youngsters made a decision bases on love not hormones.
    Color doesn't play any role in how I feel about sex, or the lack thereof.
     
  7. JavisBeason

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    Joining this late....but ill chime in and hope it wasn't already touched uponn.

    I want to have sex with a black chick.... its on my sexual todo list
    I do not want to marry a black chick though...to many issues and problems I just don't want to deal with.

    Now as far as my child doing it....if I'm going off the initial statement of them being 15/16 and she's sleeping with a black guy, its not the black guy part I'm worried about, its the teen mom thing I worry about and (*)(*)(*)(*) right I stop it regardless of race.
    The next concern I have is the fact that in a perfect world, it shouldn't matter, but we don't live in a perfect world and white girls with black babies face even more discrimination than being a single mother would. And even though teenagers think they know everything, they don't and life experience lacks in understanding what problems will occur is a real concern any parent should have.

    Hypocritical point aside that I would do a black chick and then tell my kid not to is the difference between being an irresponsible child and an adult who has knows how to prevent pregnancies.
    An adult child though....well I'm sure my parents wouldn't approve of me doing a black chick, but I'm an adult. I'm not sure they approve of many of my sexual partner choices but they stay quiet about it
     
  8. jbeukema

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    'young people'... 'young women'... 'teenagers'...

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    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E1AyrS3y_f0"]'TEEN' MOB OF 50 - YouTube[/ame]
     
  9. jbeukema

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    What injustices? Affirmative Action? Section 8? The United Negro College Fund?
     
  10. yardmeat

    yardmeat Well-Known Member

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    Bull(*)(*)(*)(*) like this does wonders for my sex life. It makes my white ass want to bang my half-asian, half-latina wife even harder. BTW, we haven't experienced much in the way of discrimination, even when visiting my home town . . . a famous hotbed for the KKK in Texas that wasn't desegregated until 1997. And there is no way in hell I'd have let "but other people might be mean to us" be an excuse to not date or marry her.
    There is no question that you have the right to do this. I don't think anyone is talking about taking that right away from you. If you are going to make that decision public, then be prepared for public scrutiny. You don't have to care about what others have to say, and you don't have to answer to them, but they have just as much of a right to (*)(*)(*)(*)(*) about it as you do to raise your daughter the way you see fit.

    By any and all reasonable definitions of racism, yes, this is racist. Telling your daughter that the color of a person's skin is the determining factor in whether she can date or marry them is racist. I doubt you even believe yourself when you say otherwise. If your daughter is only attracted to guys of her own race, whatever, she doesn't get to choose who she is attracted to. But if you tell her that the color of someone's skin is more important than her love for him or his own personal character, you are definitely racist. Sorry. You don't have to care, but you can't possibly deny.
     
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    Anyway, I don't care what the person looks like that my kids date. What business is it of mine regarding such superficial things? I want them to marry someone that can be a good partner with them and become a mutually successful family.

    Oh, and someone who will insist that they never, ever, live with their parents :mrgreen:
     
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    Are we really having a discussion about dating other races? You people are very small minded and are half the problem the world is so negative. Why would you judge a person from their color? That is whats wrong with this world. You people talk crap on the computer. But would you honestly say these things to a black persons face? of course not. You live in a black neighborhood but your racist? Why do you live there then? The people who talk crap about anyone for any reason that, that person cannot control or change is only doing it because they are actually jealous and unhappy with themselves. Grow some knowledge and courage and stop judging people by their looks and you will probably be an over all happier person. Most people work with other people, i know i do for a job. I pulled all different races out of my assignment, i'd be left with very little work and would fail in my business and make no money. We all need each other and we all play a part in society..black white pink brown yellow gold. These are just colors. Most white men these days listen to all rap music, go tanning, have loud systems in their car, have rims, rap themselves, wear their pants low. and its not to say black men cant listen to country and dress properly! Everyone has the right to freedom of speech and opinion and can do whatever they want as long as its not hurting you, stop worrying about it. The amount of time you spend worrying about other people, you could be worrying about yourself and making yourself successful. My dad is racist. Found out a black guy called my phone and told me I was grounded..so since then ive been in two serious relationships both lasting two years. Both good looking white men. Very nice families, socially acceptable, my parents liked them. The first one beat the (*)(*)(*)(*) out of me everyday and the 2nd one dated another girl behind my back the whole time we were dating. So whose to say a white man is any better than any other color based on his skin. My white mom and dad are also divorced after 24 years? why? because they were never really happy or had any passion for each other. There are three types of white men. The ones that think they are black or ghetto that are trash and mistreat women. The ones that are very nice looking but feel that they are superior and are better than everyone and end up being (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)s. And the ones that im not attracted to what so ever and are always too nice. How can you say your racist? But you tan everyday? How can you say your racist? But other races pay half your bills? How can you be racist? You voted for Obama. How can you say your daughter cant date another race? But her own color raped, abused, mistreated, cheated, and lied to her? How can white folks say they are racist? HELLLOOOOOOO There are alot more of us. Whites are who hold majority of the vote. Our president is black. My new car is too..and ill be god (*)(*)(*)(*)ed if my MAN aint too :). Join the club..SORRRY POPS..WERE NOT IN 1960 ANYMORE! hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Scumbags are gonna be scumbags no matter what color size or financial situation. :) We are all Made in gods image and likeness! Limiting yourself to only one race is drastically cutting down your chances of love when your chances are all ready slim to none. You people are ridiculous! God bless and Have a nice day!
     
  13. liberalminority

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    it hurts the father more if its his daughter, the best thing to do is say she cannot participate in any family meetings such as thanksgiving or christmas dinners, this is usually enough to sway most family oriented young women away from interracial dating.

    some reasons of last resort would be to use religious justification, some adaptations of Christianity say you have to equally yoked meaning the same race or the relationship is unholy in the eyes of God.

    if all else fails one last way could be to point the daughter at the higher rate of crime in the minority groups as opposed to the caucasian group
     
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    Why would anyone do anything? What difference does it make who my child ants to be with.
     
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    Dude, PARAGRAPHS!
     
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    And hope that she doesn't notice the fact that her boyfriend is an individual and that the crime rate of the race he happens to belong to does not necessarily reflect his own propensity for crime?
     
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    Asians have a higher crime rate than white people do?
     
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    Paragraphs are your friends. Use them wisely.
     
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    Or unwisely, but use them!
     
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    I couldn't imagine only sleeping with one group/ethnicity of people. There's a lot of beauty out there, and everyone should enjoy it.
     
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    Slut alert, everyone!

    LOL :mrgreen:
     
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    Hey, if you're at a buffet, why only eat the chicken?
     
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    "Your child is sleeping with a member of a different race. What do you do?"

    Quietly back out of the room and close the door.
     
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    Where is the fun in that? lol
     
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    Because I really, really like chicken! :mrgreen:

    Mmmmmmmm, roast chicken...
     

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