It's not still the man who is expected to provide at all. Every friend I have is working as hard as her husband and most of us earn more. I don't believe you have ever set foot in the West, your comments bear no resemblance to reality.
Can you explain the difference between a "whore" that sleeps with a guy that buys her a drink and a "whore" that sleeps with a guy for buying her a ring? Break it down enough, and all women are "whores". But that probably is what you think.
If you have to travel to another country to find a date, I'm willing to bet the problem is with YOU rather than all women.
Well gee .... mighty 'kind' of you to put a number on it. So according to your judgemental attitude about American women, if she sleeps w/19 or less, then she's not a 'whore'........? Huh? Where do you get your nerve judging a large country of women as all being the same just b/c of a few that you've met? Sure, we have a nigh divorce rate....one reason is here, the woman doesn't have to be subjected to beatings and other abuse. She's free to rid herself of the woman beater, whereas in many 3rd world countries, she's stuck w/him and has nowhere to go, like a women's support shelter and the law protecting her. If the man is cheating on her, she can divorce him. If he beats and abuses the children, she can get them away from him..... there's a lot of countries where the woman doesn't have the right to protect herself and her children b/c the guy is the 'lord and master'.... Yes, many women here are lousy mothers, just like there's also to many lousy fathers, but many are loving, protective mothers, but guess you never took the time to notice....... so, are you naive enuf to believe it's only in America where there's lousy mothers? As far as adult children putting their parents in nursing homes - many legit reasons for that and one of the main ones is that the parent needs professional care due to dementia/alzheimer..... many parents, including me, would never want to be a burden to their kids and caring for an aging parent who has mental/physical problems is a 24/7 job - and the adult kids have their own children/jobs to tend to....... why burden them w/more to be responsible for? There's good and bad people all over this planet - yet you sit in judgement of all the women of just one country........wow....... you're a real piece of work....... grow up..........
Coming a little late to this party, but here's my story: In my younger days, I didn't believe in love. Sex was just sex, something I rarely had an opportunity to enjoy, was usually rushed and therefore tended to be disappointing, and never required a commitment. Never dated multiple people at the same time; in fact dating was largely unheard of. It was something heterosexuals did, not gay people. I had my first 'serious' relationship at 26, and it lasted for 20 months. We were monogamous. I figured it was the best I was going to do anyway, the sex was good, so why bother looking for it elsewhere? After we broke up, I went back to my old ways of hitting the bars, nearly always going home alone. At one point, I went 5 years without having sex with another person.... ....until I met my current partner of nearly 11 years. Sex had ceased to be any kind of priority for me by the time we met, so being monogamous hasn't been difficult. It also helps that if there's such a thing as a soulmate, he's mine. Now I finally get what love is, and I'm committed to it.
I'd like to find a secure career before I decide if I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. Even then I don't really see the point. Sometimes a relationship just gets old. And there isn't much sense in continueing. It's healthy to meet new people. However...sleeping around behind your wife/girlfriend's back is about as low and pathetic as it gets. If you're at that point just break it off in dignity.
I play on the all girl team and was pretty much a player until I met the woman of my dreams and since then have played with only her and now that she and I are married I will as far as I can tell only play with her. I believe she feels the same way. I tend to think if a person makes a life commitment to someone they should keep it. If you want to play around you end that commitment first.
Men can screw around but women can't lol some nice double standard. I'm glad I'm lesbian so I don't have to put up with all the male ego BS. The man paying for the drink is doing the same thing as she is and from the male side you see this as just fine. I would hope that makes that have that attitude do get some strange malady on their thing that makes it hurt just to think about sex.
No, you didn't. I don't believe I accused you of saying that. I said "basically like". And I stand by that statement. Because you sound a lot like people who wish AIDS on gay people because they have some messed up sense of morality.
or maybe I can see the truth......study history like the roman and greek empire...this woman's equality crap is nothing new! It will end as soon as america collapses
LOL the men can do it so woman should be able to do it too BS.....who usually pays the bills? who buys the house? Dont give me this BS OK? Women dont want equality, they want superiority.......this is why now they are spoiled bratts and dont take care of their own kids or take care of their elderly parents.....and I am convinced that every civilization that has allowed this equality crap has failed for this reason.....when you throw your kids in daycare and throw your parents in nursing home you are destroying the very fabric of society and so is doomed to fail........this has happened before many times over the centuries....you should read up on it!
and why are you woman trying to wear the pants for anyways? Also if "EQUALITY" is what you want then whats the point in marriage? In the past mariage made sence....woman were virgins and so the only way you get any is to marry a woman......but now you can get it in any bar...so again I ask...why marry? Whats in it for the guy? I can see what the girls get......if things dont work out she runs to her lawyer...but whats in it for the guy? You see...ny eyes are just more open than most.......nope....there are plenty of descent woman in poor countries that treat men like men and dont put carreers ahead of family values!
Sympathy for rapists; pain and a lifetime of suffering for those who engage in casual, yet voluntary sex. A very strange viewpoint, indeed.
If people are going to go around having sex with random people and not bothering to protect themselves, then I won't have much sympathy for them when they catch something. They had countless chances to prevent it, did they not?
Yet, you expressed sympathy for a rapist, believing he should be given another chance ........ you really don't get it, do you?
*sigh* If he'd raped multiple times, then obviously he wouldn't have learned and wouldn't deserve diddly squat. If he raped once, and hasn't done it again, then maybe he's learned something. How can a person who screws around possibly learn anything?
Do you hope for people who speed to crash their cars and injure themselves? Do you hope for people who drink too much to get brain damage or liver cancer? Do you hope for people who smoke cigarettes to get a lung or heart disease?
To teach them a lesson. Yes to all three. If you act like an idiot, you deserve everything that comes to you.
No, but you hold a similar position to them. They want gay people to get AIDS because they consider homosexuality immoral and you want people who sleep around to get an STD because you consider their lifestyle immoral. I honestly cannot fathom why someone would wish harm on people who aren't hurting them. I just want people to find their own happiness in life, so I cannot understand someone who wishes ill on others just minding their own business.
I don't consider homosexuality immoral, but I hate the thought of sleeping around. Being a whore is nothing to be proud of, and if you sleep around with random men, you are bound to catch something. Maybe it will be a wake up call to change your behavior.
But other people do, and some of them wish harm upon gay people for this reason. How are you any different than them? Because you dislike something means the person doing it deserves to get sick or injured?
