Women share their abortion experiences

Most women do feel they made the best choice. Those that suffer from it later had people like you around them who kept saying over and over, "you made the wrong choice, baby-killer!" Even a strong woman can be worn down by self-righteous do-gooders who truly do bad.

 

Once again, YOU canNOT prove what other individuals think. You may be able to prove what SOME women think if they write it down and it's witnessed and made a legal document....blather on the Internet doesn't cut the mustard.

You ignore the fact that many women aren't affected negatively over getting an abortion and have proved it by going happily about their lives...


I know you hate the idea of a woman having a happy, fun and sex filled life ...but they do.....HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

 

Tell us your experience with abortion personally.

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MOST WOMEN DO FEEL...........HOW THE HECK DO YOU KNOW??????????????????????????????????

WHO ARE MOST WOMEN? AND HOW LONG DID IT TAKE YOU TO INTERVIEW THE MILLIONS OF WOMEN WHO HAVE GOTTEN THEM? LMAO

GRANNIE....TELL US YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH ABORTION ON A PERSONAL LEVEL?

 

You know lets get back on the topic.

What is the topic?

Woman share their abortion experiences.

So who here other than me has had an abortion....to share anything about?

I would ask the moderator to please guide us back on topic...because we have people here sharing statistics and stating things they can't actually say...because they have not had an abortion experience.

If you have had an abortion.....share your story...don't speak for anyone else but yourself...this is what this thread is about.

 

Unlike you, I am willing to take women's word for how they feel. Who would know better than they themselves how they feel? And that is what the overwhelming majority of women report....the most common feeling is RELIEF. You really should stop shouting.

 

No answer? I didn't think so.

 

OKgrannie said,

You disregard my feelings and you think I am emotional about it. AGain you can't say this. You have no way of knowing. What sources do you use? Guttmaucher? They are biased. I don't care what polling place...or what site gives stats...they do not represent the entire population of women who have killed their children. So you can't make the claim you are trying to make.

 

Control issues....LOL The position that defends abortion is controlling. Controlling the life and death of living human beings.

And no he did not have an abortion...but he does not try to make claims that your making. He has no clue what women feel....you don't either, no matter how hard you try, or you think you know...you don't. As long as people admit it...that is fine. But don't make claims that are IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU TO MAKE.

 

No one has any doubt how YOU feel about it, doesn't mean that others feel the same way and just because you regret your decision doesn't mean that others do .. why do you continue to project your regrets onto other people?

 

Just as soon as your hero, Anders, does....

 

"""you think I am emotional about it. AGain you can't say this. You have no way of knowing. What sources do you use? """"

Source ?:
Political Forum, Abortion Forum, all your screaming posts, your posts that whine about how unhappy you are, you stating how unahppy you are about having an abortion, you stating you regret having an abortion, your obvious unhappiness.




"""they do not represent the entire population of women who have killed their children""""

And neither do YOU.


And they did not kill any children

 

She's the only one here who has admitted to having an abortion and she constantly screams that only those who have had one knows anything about it. So I guess ultimately she just wants to have a debate with herself since she's ruling everyone else out of the debate entirely for never having had an abortion.

Makes me wonder why she doesn't go off to debate women who have actually had abortions and who openly speak of them.

 

I didnt have one but my girlfriend at the time (now my wife) did and weve talked about worst case scenario about haveing another one since we both are not ready or stable enough now to raise a family the way we are living. However, I have to agree with churchmouse this thread is about abortions stories, However I agree with everyone else that you cant make full judgements about people who have had them or considered having them regretting or not regretting anything. Thats like me saying "Well all religious people are freaks" I have no basis other then the one or two people I have met who to me were freaks in one way or another. Just like you cant say "People who have had abortions are evil people" Because you would lump yourself into it because you chose to have one. (Ours was medical which would be the same if we had another one) You can not say you are the only one with a judgement on this because everyone will have an opinion on it. Regardless if you have had one or not. Example. I ride motorcycles and have wrecked once or twice, Im sure your intelligent enough not to think when you wreck its like hitting a soft pillow at 30 mph and rainbows and sunshine, but hard asphault that burns and eats at you.

 

I don't have to have been in a cycle crash to know it isn't rainbows and sunshine...but I would never presume to KNOW how you personally feel about it even if I did have a cycle accident...

 

Right? A guy at my dad's work got into a horrible motorcycle accident, would've been dead if he hadn't been wearing his helmet, he had stitches all up and down his arm and shoulder and he still rides his motorcycle to work every day. They all think he is crazy to get back on his bike and put himself at risk again but they obviously don't know why he does it or how he really feels about what happened. He obviously doesn't feel the same way they do about riding a motorcycle, they don't know his feelings and they don't understand his experience.

 

(warning: Sarcasm)

But we should BAN MOTORCYCLES! Those men need counseling! They need to be controlled. They are too stupid too decide for themselves whether to ride or not!!
I KNOW how they feel after an accident because I am such a superior being and I say BAN MOTORCYCLES!

I know they REALLY regret riding motorcycles and punish themselves the rest of their lives for riding them!!

SQWACK! SHRIEK! SCREAM!

Ban MOTORCYCLES THEY KILL PEOPLE....

 

It's a little more like, "I had a bad experience! Therefore I will ban it and prevent everyone else from having the exact same experience as me! And if anyone had one and doesn't regret it they are obviously just deluded or in denial or they are evil and bad heartless villains!" *vomits vitriol and other ad hom*

 

Well here is an abortion story for all to read. I will post more as I find them online.

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Here is another one. A life saving choice for this woman.

http://www.salon.com/2011/05/26/abortion_saved_my_life/

 

She's gonna feel a helluva lot worse when the truth of what she did finally catches up with her, in this life or the next. She's a paragon of malevolence who bloody well deserves to be miserable.

 

OKgrannie, should I say now that this post in itself could be just as false as any other. Recently I had a friend come to me with an interesting story.

A woman was coming home from work, and she was raped. She became pregnant, and did not sacrifice her morals for convenience. As I recall her husband stood by her in this. Now there is another strong and healthy baby girl in the world. The mother has been attacked by those she would otherwise have thought friends. These people have been telling her she made the wrong choice in keeping the child. Now many years from now that child will be able to talk and walk and have a profession and a family ect. So who are they to say it was the wrong choice, and who would say so to that child's face? They WOULD murder a human being and this is all the more proven by the fact they still dispute whether it was the right choice. Except nothing can be done now, but then it was "legal" and all.

Don't think yourself righteous or good, especially not by calling the other side "self-righteous". "Baby killer" is not the thing to call the people who have made the wrong decision, but fighting against that decision is perfectly just.

In my opinion women do need to stand up and be strong. Stand up to convenience and trauma and more. If anyone thinks they are strong enough to go on a battlefield, they should be able to go through childbirth, despite what pain, trauma, or inconvenience it may cause. Just by doing so they are participating in something much greater than themselves. People (who do you think that might be?) will thank them someday for it to.

 

Women should be forced to give birth because someday someone will thank them?!?!

LOLOLOLL...Worst Possible Reason..OMGAWD!



And women have stood up and been strong since the first woman walked the earth... strong women do as they please and don't worry about what others think and don't expect "thanks" for anything...

 

You know, for some reason, just some random reason this makes no sense...

Someone thanking you is a bonus to doing something right. Just in case you didn't know soldiers went to war and died because they knew generations of people after them would be thankful for their sacrifice. A person thankful for being alive and free is an incredibly important reason for anything. Don't you dare insult it or make fun of it, otherwise you are attacking and insulting a multitude of soldiers who made the ultimate sacrifice.

Being strong isn't about being an anarchist, thanks for exposing a bit of your true nature here. You literally said you wouldn't mind a woman murdering someone. I am done arguing with you,don't bother to reply, you won't get an answer.

 

LOL! Once again someone doesn't have an answer so goes all defensive and pulls out the "your not worthy of a reply" card...


I just adore you had to twist this into me not appreciating my own father's contribution as a soldier in WW2.

Did you personally thank every soldier?

 

You cannot honestly say my post is false. It is TRUE that most women feel they made the best choice.

Referring to pregnancy as "inconvenience" is dishonest, it is deliberately minimizing the effects of pregnancy on the woman. Referring to abortion as "murder" is dishonest, as long as abortion is legal it is not murder. Hurrah for the woman's husband who supported her in that decision. As long as the woman made the choice SHE felt was right, kudos for her.

Abortion is sometimes the right decision. Those who choose it should not be shamed, ostracized, or attacked in any manner whatsoever.

Women do stand up to be strong. They do endure childbirth, despite pain, trauma, "inconvenience", but it should be their choice whether to endure it. You know what--no matter how grateful a person is to be alive, they seldom thank their mothers for it. Not that thanks is the reason women give birth.

 

Question Mr.littlelawyer.

Was she given a choice?

Was she told she could decide to go through with the pregnancy or have an abortion? Or was she TOLD she could only have the child regardless?

If I was going through the same situation with my wife, I would stand by her decision, Now we have had an abortion (I am starting to feel like churchmouse with always talking about it on these kinds of threads o.0) Because of her health issues. But the thing I agree with is Giving the person a choice.

I have personally seen people who have had children from Rape and they dispise the children like it was their fault. I agree the child has no punishment through this but some people arent stronge enough mentally to be able to reason and will take it out on the child. So who is anyone to say "Well you still have to have the child regardless if you would be a fit parent"