Explain to me why I should not let this color my experience and form my stereotypes?

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  1. ToddWB

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    I may avoid a group of gang bangers. Does that make me racist or careful? You avoid white bikers and white meth heads. Does that make you a racist? Do you avoid or mistrust Blacks because they are black? Fatback does.
     
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    Not what he said, and depends on the circumstance.
     
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    This is the single most likely common denominator among Trump and DeSantis supporters. I had given this dude the benefit of the doubt for a long time that although he shared membership with these guys he seemed to not have shared in this despicable trait. Lowest of the low is this bullshit of castigating folks into oblivion with stereotypes. His buddy posts earlier in the thread about being friends with a black dude sharing interests in bikes, then asserts that he avoids bars with Harelys parked outside.
     
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  6. ToddWB

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    I think I’ll start a thread, called” guess the race”
     
  7. ToddWB

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    as usual with your type you have miss characterized what I post.
     
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  8. FatBack

    FatBack Well-Known Member

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    As long as people refuse to acknowledge that there are certain demographics that have a problem, that problem will continue to exist.

    Instead of acknowledging that problem people would rather call you a racist for pointing out that hey there's a problem.

    And I don't really care if people are going to have a low opinion of me because I'm willing to point out problems in society. I'll point out problems in every group just like I'll point out if there's a group that has more problems.

    And I don't care if it hurts your feelings either.
     
  9. FatBack

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    I'm going to remind everyone in this thread that has called me a racist that you yourself had no problem using the derogatory term "cave Queen" to refer to white women.

    And I didn't see any of the same people in this thread that have a problem with me say a damn word to you about that.

    The fact that they ignored that and gave you a pass tells me something about the genuiness or lack thereof of all parties involved.
     
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    edna kawabata Well-Known Member

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    I don't know what a "cave Queen" even means, but it is not even in the ballpark of if I said, "a majority of whites tend to be rude and arrogant and demanding and spoiled and entitled". I know a lot, especially whites and liberals, will disagree with me, saying that has not been their experience with whites, but that has been my experience. I'll be accused of being racist for believing most whites are rude, arrogant and demanding and if they don't get their way they turn racist, but that's the way whites are. That's not racist.
     
  11. FatBack

    FatBack Well-Known Member

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    the derogatory term cave Queen should be pretty obvious if you use your logic to think about what that could mean when speaking about a white woman.

    Would you be okay if someone called a black woman something like a sunburn
    Queen? Of course not and we both know it.


    It doesn't make me a racist to point out the truth.

    And you don't see me sitting here calling blacks derogatory terms but evidently you're okay with it if someone does the same for whites.
     
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    Here's the question. Would you still have that same feeling if this was done to you by a white man, or an Asian man?
     
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    So I did a search of the forum, and I found only one time you said "cave queen" and didn't see anyone else make use of the term anywhere. Exactly where did all this supposedly happen?
     
  14. FatBack

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    Evidently it was deleted. You know how much have a way of a deleting offensive post. If you're skeptical I encourage you to consider his history of anti-white posting.
     
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    If I encountered similar events by them at similar rates yes I would.
     
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    Sunburn queen lol.
     
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    You said, "all of you", and now you are saying "his". So which is it?
     
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    Why don't you just ask him? Would you rather argue about whether he said it or not or would you condemn the use of such a derogatory racial slur?

    When I confronted him and called him out on it he claimed that it was not racist because he's white and he can't be racist against his own race.

    Sounds like a brilliant plan doesn't it? Come on the forum and express your racism, but claim you're the same race as your Target and then that magically makes it okay...

    You do understand that when a post gets deleted it will no longer show up in the search right? So go ahead and ask him and let's see if he was as proud of it now as he was then.

    You may or may not happen to notice but you probably should if you don't, he's not making any effort to deny it now is he?
     
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    Its your life and your decision. You can either allow such things destroy your peace, or not allow it. Based on your posts, your peace it is tatters.
     
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    And you're the one who just made a post stating that you would not go into a bad neighborhood. It's almost like you're admitting that certain people commit certain behaviors at a rate that would make you logically believe that you should avoid them.

    But I'm sure that you'll come up with an excuse for your admission but still find a way to condemn my aversion to similar.
     
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    Yes, I choose to stay out of dangerous neighborhoods. Its common sense.

    Its always about 'certain people' for you. The Walmart which I avoid sits in a dangerous neighborhood, which is why I avoid it. I don't care if I get mugged by a white guy, black guy, or yellow guy, - I avoid neighborhoods where I am most likely to get mugged. Most people do the same.

    Sorry to say, but you opened a thread about some guy a bar robbing your off your peace. He doesn't even know you have been complaining about it for two weeks now.
     
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    Nothing but excuses for your double standard and your own opinion which is attempting to project
     
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    A more pertinent question would be, why does it offend you but not me, considering we are two white boys?
     
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    The cool thing about the internet is you can be anything you want.

    You can even pretend to be a color so that you can make racist remarks about that color and then try to pretend that it's okay because you say that you can't be racist against your own color.

    You're just making excuses for your use of a racist term.
     
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    That's pretty silly that you let it form any opinion about black people as a group. From the description of your interaction, its even rather silly that you even paid any special notice to his race. He wasn't even talking about race or racism? He was just an asshat? Do you also form opinions about blondes, short guys, and people with brown eyes this way?
     

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