Note to self: before making out with someone, think about who she is, what your chances with her are, where she is in life, and if she fits what you're looking for. yes, I have made out with and had sex with lots of women, where I had no hope or desire for it to become anything. But I knew it as I was doing it, and that's why I was able to do it.
Actually...I am married to one, and damn fine specimen at that. Fortunately I managed to tame a wild Cat, and make it a pet. Still has a sandpaper tongue though.
I'm thinking and wondering to myself: "what would I say to a woman who I made out with or had sexual relations with, that I didn't want to see again but she very much wanted to see me?". perhaps the truly adult question is: "should I be doing such things anymore?"
I find that ironic considering how you bragged about it. this is why I don't like to brag and why I'm cautious about being caught up in the moment. I'm sorry, I'm truly not trying to be an asshat.
i dont think its ironic. i just think it shows how naive and foolish i was. what i did, and more importantly how i viewed it, was a mistake. how do i not repeat this mistake? not sure. maybe leave myself notes in my phone, to remind myself.
Look for the signs of it happening. If it's the same thing with another girl then the same thing will happen. Also, consider asking what her intentions are. Not a lot of girls these day are for a serious relationship they just want a one nighter Don't let thinking with the wrong head cloud your judgements. That's the mistake far too many guys do and how they get into a relationship with a toxic woman. Think with your brain, not with the other head.
There is nothing therapeutic about talking to yourself - which should be especially obvious to anyone who stops to consider that the practice is nothing but a delusion in the first place, seeing you can hardly tell yourself anything you don't know already. It's no concern of yours, as there isn't a damn thing you can do about it, seeing you've given her no reason to respect you.
