Jus sayin bro. Ppl that say beauty is on the inside are generally not very..... aesthetically pleasing, shall we say...
Or they're not so full of themselves that they don't feel the need to go around on the internet and brag about it...
With the racist term that you recently used to describe white women we know that you don't believe white is beautiful. Anytime you get on your soapbox about your so called "anti-racism" I'm going to remind you of that
Sure you can and evidently the moderators thought it was because it's been deleted. But me and pepperidge farms will remember. There are plenty of confused white people who hate themselves and their own skin when they look in the mirror. It must be a very debilitating.... State of confusion to exist in. In my opinion hating yourself because of the color of your own skin is one of the stupidest things anyone could ever possibly do. So you claiming to be an "anti-racist" is one of the most hilarious things I have seen
It still remains the same, white ppl can't be racist to whites. Call me a self hater all you like, icall it being closer to Yah.
You should not be ashamed of what your father and mother created. Harboring racist views towards your own skin does not bring you closer to God in any way shape or form. Having a sense of self guilt erects a barrier between you and your creator
still remains the same, white ppl can't be racist to whites. Your argument is based on a false premise. Try again sport .
It could be a cultural difference. Im pretty attractive (I've been told numerous times, to my surprise) but Im also terribly un-entertaining company (I've also been told many times, with NO surprise). Women have precisely zero interest in me ...unless they see me at work. Which is rare, since I work in the sewer. But on rare occassion Im seen working by the fairer sex, thats when I get attention.
You can keep repeating yourself all you like but whites can't be racist to other whites. That's just common sense
ROFL!!!!! Someone's been feeding you a line! That's would be exactly what you are doing here: And your bias is obvious. Common sense isn't. Neither is friendly fire. And yes a person of any race can be racist against their own skin color. Racism is the belief that one race is superior to the other races. That doesn't mean it has to be one's own race one believes is the superior one.
Just no, whites can't be racist to whites. Also beauty is standard, it doesn't need defining, it's obvious. That is not me saying what it is or isn't. It's me saying that everybody knows what it is and deviations from that are mere personal bias
As a female, I can categorically state you are engaging in fat shaming. You have conflated being a proper weight with other positive attributes such as “priorities, determination and commitment to name a few” and once again specifically attacking females with your comments.The reason why weight discrimination, stigma, and bigotry continue to exist is partly due to the farcical belief that being thin is somehow better and morally superior. Your words directly support this. Thinness does not equal health or success. Being the right weight should not be a requisite to be treated with dignity and respect. Overweight people are marginalized, looked down upon, and discriminated against just because of their body size. I often see where people who engage in bullying fat shaming use concern about health as the reason for their comments but that is rarely the reason for such behaviour. Whatever the reason, fat shaming is designed to make the target ashamed of their body. You decided to lie to your daughter by being dishonest with her. As far as I am concerned, it’s nice to live in your daughter’s world where she doesn’t feel the pressure of having to be perfect. The world where males don’t expect females to be in the best shape or not carrying around a few extra pounds. You managed to even fat shame your daughter with your comments. In my life, every man l have known well has not had the shallow prerequisite of their partner being thin and in good shape. Attractiveness in terms having a pretty facial features is sometimes mentioned. What is attractive is different for individuals. Fatness/thinness are assessments of size and weight and not the basis of character. Any way I read your post, it comes across as having a bias against women who you determine to be unhealthy, unattractive, or lacking self-control and then you try to say this is what men think. As for being a doctor, you are part of the problem. Many overweight people are treated poorly by physicians and therefore are reluctant to discuss weight and are less likely to seek care for other illnesses. Research has shown that when obese people seek out care, they are more likely to receive substandard treatment, including receiving fewer preventive health screenings, decreased health education, and decreased time spent in appointments. Why are you singling out and denigrating women here.? There are huge numbers of obese men out there as well. What is all over the internet is fakeness and air brushing. It doesn’t represent reality. Believe it or not, many people accept their partners for who they are. Some guys like a curvy voluptuous body type. Everybody has their own preferences. My preference has always been to be with a man with a great sense of humour and a bucketload of intelligence. It worked for me. I never looked for some lean trim person ever. Well here you go, I have said what I think. Most people come with some kind of baggage. You have a lot of baggage in terms of constantly attacking females in the guise of asking members what they think. Your comments in terms of baggage just serves to denigrate women even further. The fact that you couldn’t be with a very nice woman just because she was 15 pounds overweight speaks volumes about you. You didn’t deserve her if you based a relationship with her on weight. So, your belief is that the primary role for women is to have children or they are narcissistic and prone to anxiety and depression. Now, women must be of a normal weight or they won’t possess certain qualities. I can’t wait for your next thread designed to tear down women. Oh by the way, I have a BMI of 21, so am of normal weight in case you should accuse me of being an angry fat women.
Sorry, I only chat with women with a BMI of less 21. Just kidding. Again, I thank you for your thoughtful response. There's a lot of stuff to unwrap in what you wrote but I do not have the time to address much of it. Let's talk about my belief that a woman's primary role should be child-bearing. If not this, what do you believe a woman's primary role in society should be? Worker bee? Just somebody hanging out and having fun? In order for a society to thrive, there needs to be strong institutions that create prosperity. Is not motherhood elemental to this process?
Ok Mr " forums most notorious anti-racist ".... Do you have any other blatantly racist terms for white women you would like to express?
Obesity is a health issue for any homo sapiens. Its not fat shaming to point out it is using a medical criteria. It might be if the choice of words and/or intent of the speaker is to shame. Information does not make the shaming, the sequence of wording, context, tone of voice, non verbal mannerisms all may indicate whether its done to shame or educate without shame or simply point out medical facts with a purpose to encourage people to be healthy. Also the term "shaming" is very subjective. What one person intends to be constructive and positive another may perceive as negative and hurtful. With due respect physicians say things to patients that we do not like. Mine tells me to lose weight. Of course he will. I am 66 and have type 2 diabetes, other ailments of a 66 year old male. Does he shame me or is that me taking the reality of what he says and shaming myself? When is a person telling us as a medical professional info we need to know shaming us because we react to it with shame? Its a hard question. I mean some docs have very bad communication skills, others good ones. Obviously as well a father and physician talking to his own children about health issues obviously is in a position where they can easily be misconstrued and so as the physician on this thread knows, he would not treat his daughter and I am sure says things that piss her off all the time and vice versa and its life. Is it shaming or life as we know it? Do parents only say non shameful things if they do not communicate things that their children do NOT want to hear? Oh hell my father was an insulting son of a bitch and belittling, Sure was. On some of the stuff for sure, on other stuff may be not, just blunt and direct. All I can tell you he died last year at 96 and whatever he said that pissed me off long passed and as I got older the less important the insults were to the point I found some things to laugh over with him in the years leading up to his death. I say that because I am sure half the stuff we think gives us shame, is us giving ourselves shame. Its up to us on an individual level to decide what we do with info. We have to stop claiming our feelings were created by others as we grow and mature and take responsibility for how we react and define ourselves. Er at least so I think. Its just that. I do not mean to shame anyone. Next point. I don't tell fat people they are fat. They already know. Its like them telling me I am a mean old man. I know. Smelly too.
