Would you date a Transgender?

I voted no simply because I may want to have biological kids with my wife someday. Other than that, I wouldn't have any problem dating a MTF (Male to female) Transsexual, as long as she got rid of her former male parts.

Would you guys be comfortable dating a Transgendered individual?

 

It depends how authentic and realistic she is.

But usually what happens with me is I find out the hard way. : (

I am joking of course; my answer is no. I don't even like all those piercings, tan, tattoos, and especially fake boobs. I like a girl just the way God made her.... As for picking one up, that's another story altogether!

 

I see quite a few Kathoeys, I've even had them in the classroom as students. I've seen Kathoeys that you need to look really close to make sure. Some are so beautiful, you just say Wow.

Would I date one if I knew she was a Kathoey. No.

 

No. This isn't something I'd do.

I, however, wouldn't care so much if other people did. Personal preference and what not.

 

No, I would not. I just find it terribly unpleasant to know that it was once a guy. The worst thing is that many look really good, really womanly. I've actually found myself commenting on tv that she was hot, only to find out iut was a guy.. If I ever date someone and find out they're really a guy, I don't know what I'd do. But you can't go around asking every date if they've been a male before, that's kind of insulting. what to do?!

 

Ahhh....No!

I am getting the willies just thinking about it! LOL!

Hey...to each their own but...for me...No Way!

I can't even understand how Women like us?

AboveAlpha

 

If you are nice, kind, with a big heart and treat me like I am the most important person in your life, then yes. I don't give a rats what is or was between your legs.

 

Is that the Lao equivalent of ladyboys in Bangkok? Some in Bangkok are amazingly beautiful and hard to detect. Thank god for the Crocodile Dundee method.

 

You cannot change your gender. It is impossible. You can have -IMO perverse- surgeries performed, but that does not change your gender. A man that is born a man cannot carry children in a womb he does not possess no matter what he cuts off and what clothes he wears. You're essentially asking people if they would indulge in homosexuality.

 

I was watching 'Manswers' one day, and someone had asked for a way to determine whether or not a woman is actually a woman. Apparently, the best way to tell, is to check out her hands. A man's index finger should typically be shorter than the ring finger, vice versa for women.

 

You are confusing gender with sex.

 

If they're passable (Bailey Jay tier) and not hard to deal with. That's dating of course, beyond that I'm not sure.

 

No way in hell.

 

Basically, you're asking if I would be willing to date a mentally ill man who surgically disfigured himself.

I'm pretty comfortable saying no to that.

 

The few trans MtoF I have met don't even strike me as being real women. A little too stereotypicly "feminine."

While I was in college, I did a test to see if people could identify the gender of the author of a short passage. Every damned one that attempted to answer, out of 200, identified a M to F as female.

 

Pre op?

No.

Post Op?










No.

 

I don't know. I couldn't see myself liking the sex all that much, but then again I'm asexual. My guess, if I felt that special way about someone, why not?

 

Lao and Thai are very similar languages. Kathoey in both Laos and Thailand.

 

It's like cheap branded cola in discount stores. Why would I buy that unrealistic crap when I can easily buy a proper and authentic Coca-Cola?

In other words; HELL NO.

 

I would except for one hang up; I want to have children biologically.

 

Since I believe this stuff is biological in nature I try to have compassion for it. So when I see a transgender male - it's actually a female brain with a male body. That's gotta be rough. So I'm naturally attracted to the female brain part and the typical female behaviors that come about but I'm repulsed at the male body parts. Soooo - this question is difficult. It's a push pull thing. Even if the male body parts where gone, I don't know. With youtube - you can see the power of estrogen hormones. It's crazy.

 

youre asexual? wow, doesnt that suck?

 

I don't think so. I like being asexual. It means I get to love people for who they are, not because of some titties.

 

I've dated both a MTF and a FTM. Then again, I go more for intellect and personality than for what parts they have. I don't really care to have kids, because of my disabilities, I do not want to risk passing on a potentially inheritable disease.

Transgenders are some of the most kindhearted people you'd ever meet. They are so understanding and intelligent. Both of my trans partners gave me love that felt deeper and more heartfelt than the partners i had that were cisgendered.

 

But doesn't it mean that you don't feel any attraction? Well, I suppose that you wouldn't know what you're missing since you've never experienced it but I can tell you, being attracted to those bags of milk is really nice.