Your child is sleeping with a member of a different race. What do you do?

Discussion in 'Race Relations' started by Anders Hoveland, Aug 14, 2011.

  1. TRFjr

    TRFjr Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    or a combination of all three and a few more mixed in until eventually you wouldn't be able to tell what race or even what mix of races they are just by looking at them there for no racism because how can you be racist towards someone you cant figure out what race they are
     
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    it's just simply not human nature is what I'm thinking though. our uniquness is the reason we group with those like us.
     
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    human nature changes and people tend group together by culture more so then race
     
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    explain why there are still black sections of towns, white sections, Little China... etc....
     
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    do they group together because of race or is it by culture? and what Im describing isn't going to happen over night it will take many decades before you see it starting to take effect
     
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    I'd lean towards socio-economic and by race.

    but still, the second part of the problem is, like dog mutts, just because they exist, doesn't mean that purebreds lose their value. In fact, they are MORE valuable.
     
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    I hire a private detective to investigate him or her.

    Not joking.
     
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    Now you are trying to move the goal posts. The thread subject is about if your kid was dating someone of another race and your words were if it was a black unemployed bum you would object. Which means you would have been ok if it was a white unemployed bum.
     
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    Your child is sleeping with a member of a different race. What do you do?

    Remove them from my will.
     
  10. JavisBeason

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    technically, it's about sleeping with. I can object to that, no matter what the race.....

    But even a employed, contributing member of society black.... there are no garantees the relationship will last. So if my (adult) child is sleeping with a black guy, there are still concerns about what happens if they have a child together, and then he's gone. Not even an abandoned gone, just a broken up gone.


    A girl walking around with a mixed baby is looked at differently by society, and future possible suitors. The assumption is.... ghetto baby mama and it's a stigma.


    I don't agree with it... at all.... however, to ignore that reality is just politically correct bs.


    but with that said.... and I already have.... but since you asked again, I'll answer you again. There are PLENTY of white POS's that I would also not approve of. but daughter being saddled with his kid is easier to recover from than with a mixed kid that's obviously mixed.
     
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    my now father in law did that with me..... well, maybe not hiring someone, but one day, my now wife, when we first started dating, asked what my full name was (I go by initials nickname) I told her, and then said to make sure you look up the correct (name) because my father has the same name, and I have a cousin that also has my first name (different middle name) same last name.

    But her dad dang sure snooped me out due to the previous exes she had had. I passed with flying colors.
     
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    Who cares about the race.... I wouldn't be happy if my child was mating with a black or white thug.... Nor would I want my child rased in any culture but a classical liberal culture....

    As a Sicilian I would rather my child mate/date an individual from a black classical liberal/libertarian family than a white progressive family.

    I don't hate blacks or any race I hate the primative culture that is known as "ghetto."

    I suppose if I had to choose between a black and a white classical liberal I guess white, and I'm sure a black would prefer a black...
     
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    I think my mother's generation (think WWII) had more problems with it. My mother was pretty liberal except for that and the reason was the kids would suffer. True for her time. Interracial relationships are not just acceptable, they are the norm throughout human history. You might have some Neanderthal blood in your own veins.
     
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    Go to Idaho. If your daughter still marries a negro, it means that she hates your guts and is trying to get back at you. Good Luck!
     
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    Well, the stupid thing about this thread is that you have any control over what your kids do when they reach adulthood.
     
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    What do you thing a Mexican is? not exactly like they claim - they're not "native" or "we were here first" nonsense... The Spanish had their way...

    Historically interbreeding is and was common...


    IMO, who is really opposed to it besides blatant racists?
     
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    Get down to reality and the nature of man and sex and we would have kids with the DNA of hands or socks.
     
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    Thats my point.... I could care less about race.

    It's borders (US), language (English) and culture (US culture)...

    I'm a (*)(*)(*)(*)ing US citizen - Not an Italian not a Swede ...

    Pasta is awesome - so are Swedish meatballs.
     
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    Maybe the reason you only like vanilla is because that is all you're able to get.:wink:
     
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    Another saying: "The Blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice".:smile:
     
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    I know a White man who feels exactly like you do. He has 2 daughters. They both ended up marrying Black men. So he now has several mixed race grandkids. .
    He also has 2 sons. The sons are married to White girls, so those grandkids are not mixed. He treats the mixed grandkids different than the White grandkids. I think that is wrong.
     
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    Read a report that in 500 years, everyone will look similar. We're not in a isolated world as was the case 500 years ago.
    Trust me, when there is only one race....HUMANS WILL find another way to hate their neighbor.....sadly. Ear shape or dialect...or something.
    People suck. That's why I love my dog and cat.
     
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    Haven't read the report, but I just doubt it. Many people prefer to date people who look like themselves, and they are more common than the alternative. Humans are not a random mating model.

    Sad? Yes. Wrong? Not really. Grandfathers usually do prefer some grandkids over others. Naturally it would be the ones most like him.
     
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    I would call that wrong and racist.
     
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    my grandmother treated grandkids differently, too, based on which ones she liked more between sibling sets.

    Each of her kids had 2 boys each.... and she had a favorite in each set. (my brother was the favorite in my set)


    maybe the grandkids are treated differently based on personalities, like a lot of grandparents do, but you choose to assume it's because they are mixed.

    Maybe it's because the mixed were born out of wedlock vs the whites born in wedlock (I don't know this, just a possible reason that has ZERO to do with race)

    looking to call it racism FIRST, when there can be a bunch of different reasons for it is like assuming a bad black employee got fired because he was black and the boss was racist, when really, it was for the 3 no-call, no-shows he did.



    I'm not saying grandpa playing favorites for any reason is right... just that it could be for something else.



    you know, come to think of it, the favorites my grandmother had were all the non-redheaded siblings..... I'm redheaded, my brother is not, my cousin Rich, is not, .... and Jerry.


    I'm going to just assume now she was a gingerist.... which is weird, because she was a redhead.... does that make her a self-loathing gingerist?

    yes, I agree, it sounds silly, yet, change gingerist with racist and you have the exact same scenario you believe whole-heartedly
     

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