Your child is sleeping with a member of a different race. What do you do?

Discussion in 'Race Relations' started by Anders Hoveland, Aug 14, 2011.

  1. JavisBeason

    JavisBeason New Member

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    another saying.... "I'm black..... from the waist down..... it doesn't work and will and it has curly hair."



    I'm always amused whenever people love to push the "good stereotypes" about blacks, and then get offended by the bad ones.


    well hung... - go ahead and promote that stereotype... I'm good with people assuming I have a big penis
    a thug - NO NO NO!!!111 that's racist

    athletic and disproportionately represents most sports - go ahead and promote that stereotype
    Criminal and disproportionately represents most prisons - NO NO NO, THAT"S RACIST

    white guys can't jump - excellent movie that isn't a racist title...
    black man can't pay child support - RACIST
     
  2. Moriah

    Moriah Well-Known Member

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    Sounds like someone has small penis syndrome. LOL!:roflol: It's OK, Javis. When I was a little girl, I used to envy the straight soft hair of the little White girls. It took me a long time to appreciate the beauty of my own hair. I guess penis envy is similar to hair envy.
     
  3. Albert Di Salvo

    Albert Di Salvo New Member

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    This thread is very unsophisticated. It fails to realize that it's very much possible for some white people to be open to some racial/cultural groups, and not to others. Race is much more than skin color. It is also a matter of culture and ideology.
     
  4. JavisBeason

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    The only envy I ever had was tan envy..... being a redhead... I sunburned, and my brother tanned.

    but funny... in your haste to try to 'burn me' on a penis size joke you have no way of verifying, you continued to say "good stereotypes are ok to perpetuate.... but it's "racist" when you say a bad one"


    shouldn't ALL racial stereotypes be condemned... not just the ones you don't like.
     
  5. Moriah

    Moriah Well-Known Member

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    So why do you post racist stereotypes about Blacks?
     
  6. JavisBeason

    JavisBeason New Member

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    because this thread has devolved into a white/black interacial relationship thread.


    would you rather talk about how black women are viewed as the least desirable demographic to date/marry/have kids with by any other demographic, black male included?

    - - - Updated - - -

    Asians are the brightest in the world....

    Asians are the worst drivers....



    There, which (nonblack) stereotype deserves denouncing
     
  7. Oxymoron

    Oxymoron Well-Known Member

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    I would be ok with any race more or less, but I would have a problem with culture. I do not mind a huckstable but I would mind a Wu tang Clan.
     
  8. Moriah

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    Yes, let's talk about how Black women are the least desirable to date/marry/have children with. That should be fun. :roflol: Sounds like I done pissed Mr. Javis off mighty bad. If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
     
  9. JavisBeason

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    no, I'm not the one trying to justify why we can't use stereotypes (unless they are good)

    http://www.quora.com/Why-are-Asian-...-groups-when-it-comes-to-dating-interracially

    Asian men, and black women.... not very desirable overall.
     
  10. JavisBeason

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    this is my thoughts exactly. ghetto lifestyle is something I wouldn't want my child dating into..... just because racebaiters want to think thug = the n-word, there are plenty of whites I would also be against my child dating.

    Why is it, telling my daughter, that dating a thug is bad, is acceptable if the thug is white, but not if he's black?
     
  11. Clausewitz

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    Race preference is very clearly a sin so your comment gave me a chuckle
     
  12. Jayce

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    I'm a black privately educated Zimbabwean who has always been a bit jungle... Jungle being the term we used at school to describe someone who dated across racial divides. I found that most parents were okay with that and that some weren't. Mine at face value were okay with it however Ive always suspected a hint of dismay at the prospect of mixed race grandchildren. At least through my own experiences Ive discovered there will always be people who object to inter-racial couples but in this day and age, it shouldn't mean much because cultures will interact and consequently blend and evolve. My wife and I get the occasional ''look'' but were over that and the in-laws seem to get along just fine despite the huge cultural gap between our families.

    My question is... If a girl raised on hardcore Rhodie values can get hitched to a guy raised on revolutionary-nationalist principals ( Which would inherently make us enemies ) why is it so much of a major issue in the U.S. Is it perhaps that the social and economic stratum are racially oriented rather than being based on a system meritocracy thereby making it an unspoken taboo?

    I just had to ask because there seems to be so much racial angst now days... Its this ''White cops killing Black kids'' nonsense going on and on which begs another question why applaud a constitution that provides equal rights in varying degrees according to race for something so perfect it seems pretty messed up to me.
     
  13. QLB

    QLB Well-Known Member

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    I don't believe a thing you're saying. Total BS. BTW I know Zim and many of the people who lived there.
     
  14. perotista

    perotista Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I do not know the divorce rate is for inter racial couples. But for all marriages it is 40-50% with the divorce rate higher for each subsequent marriage.

    http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/

    I married a Thai and am still happily married 45 years later. My oldest daughter married a Laotian and she is still married. Now my son has been married 4 times and it is anyone's bet on how long his fourth marriage will last. My youngest daughter married a white guy and she is still married. I have a grand daughter who married a black guy, happy with 3 kids. One of my grandson's though has been married twice and the second seems to be working.

    If you want to see a bunch of inter racial marriages, just walk into any PX or commissary on any military base.
     
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    perotista Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Why is it such an issue in the U.S. It is on a political forum like this one. I have been military all my life and it is no big thing with those in the military and retired. You would probably be surprised at the amount of couple that have married inter rascally. In my neighborhood if that word applies to the country, my neighbor is a black guy, ex military married to a Korean gal, I am married to a Thai, across the road my Daughter is married to a Laotian, next to her is a black couple, next to me on the other side is a white couple and about a half mile down the road is a black guy married to a white woman. No problem here.
     
  16. Jayce

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    Why... Because I'm a Zimbabwean Black man married to a White woman? Believe it or not QLB but stranger things have happened mate!
     
  17. ARDY

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    My brother married a chinese lady
    They have two mixed race kids
    Who are also great

    Btw
    A fairly large percentage of blacks in this country are multi racial already.... Including of course obama
    Lots of racial mixing in places like mexico, brazil, cuba already
    I am not convinced there is something especially important about racial purity
    And am sorry that i will not live to see the day that concept is quaintly incomprehensible artifact of history
     
  18. QLB

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    That's very strange. Ever been to Tiger Bay?
     
  19. Albert Di Salvo

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    Race isn't simply a matter of skin color. In America it also involves culture and ideology.
     
  20. Brewskier

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    I'd probably disown my daughter. I'd lose all respect for her. I wouldn't care as much if my son banged a few non-whites, but if he was planning on marrying one, I'd disown him, too.

    Just being honest.
     
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    And the amazing part is I bet you don't even consider yourself a racist.
     
  22. Brewskier

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    Sure I do. But thankfully that's only a bad word to the politically correct.
     
  23. Jayce

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    Nope, no I haven't don't think I'd much like to either...
     
  24. QLB

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    Really? I have to question if you're really from Zim.
     
  25. Jayce

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    Why, because I'm not taken by the absurdity that is the ''American way'' or because right now I feel like I'm doing just fine right here in Zim?
     

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