Toxic masculinity

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  1. Le Chef

    Le Chef Banned at members request Donor

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    I don't know, I'd say that all cheeseburgers have cheese, yes.

    I personally never had a burger with cheese that wasn't a cheeseburger. I guess they exist. If you made a burger with a cheese infused bun, that would "involve" cheese but not be a cheeseburger.
     
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    All cheeseburgers have cheese. But the word "cheeseburgers" does not imply that all burgers have cheese. Same with "toxic masculinity" and masculinity.

    People who claim that "toxic masculinity" maligns all masculinity do not know how adjectives work.

    "Tall Swede" does not mean that all Swedes are tall.
    "Wrecked car" does not mean that all cars are wrecked.
    "Unemployed veteran" does not mean that all veterans are unemployed.
    "Toxic masculinity" does not mean that all masculinity is toxic.
    "Cheeseburger" does not mean that all burgers have cheese.
     
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    No because I have no idea what you are talking about.
    This thread is about toxic masculinity.
    Real men care and protect women at all levels. Including their emotional needs.
    It really is that simple.
     
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    The rest of mankind.
     
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    Do you think I invented the term toxic masculinity, and that every time your heard someone use it, that it was just me pretending to be someone else?

    Why won’t you say what you think about Andrew Tate?

    Do you admire Andrew Tate?
     
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    He's a bit brash for my taste, wouldn't hang out with the guy. But I have listened to what he says on occasion and he is not wrong.
     
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    Not wrong about what exactly?
     
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    I figured. Sorry for wasting my time.
     
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    I'm sorry that you had to go through such blatant abuse as a kid.

    My two younger brothers and I got our share of well deserved spankings for things like blowing up "tree houses", burning down the woodpile, target shooting in the basement, throwing spears in the house, putting M-80s in snowballs, shooting flashlight batteries out of home made cannons at each other and the list goes on and on.

    Our poor parents used various belts, switches and paddles with little effect as we went on to wreck so many cars and motorcycles that poor, old dad went on to buy an auto-body repair shop just to keep up with the destruction.

    And people wonder why I don't have children...
     
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    It sounds like you had a helluva a lot of fun.
     
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    Yes, now I can see why there were some days when dear old dad just didn't feel like getting out of bed...

    Thanks,
     
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    What would you call a burger with cheese? Maybe a toxic burger?
     
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    Reading fail.
     
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    I would call a burger with mushrooms and Swiss cheese a toxic burger. I have really tried to appreciate them.
     
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    No doubt. They should be rooting for the Lions.

    Toxic masculinity indeed.
     
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    Toxic behavior isn't connected to masculinity or feminine. These are cultural expectations of men and women.

    Being exuberant about sports isn't connected to masculinity. Wanting to murder someone isn't connected to masculinity.

    I don't think football fans getting excited is any worse or different than those people that dress up like storm troopers or super heros.

    Running around looking to commit murder that's toxic no matter who engages. You wouldn't call it toxic femininity for example what Lisa Marie nowak did even though it was absolutely crazy.
     
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    I heard in England they call that a Royal, with cheese.
     
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    Is the cheese cheddar, swiss, or that disgusting American cheese? Being lactose intolerant I can turn American cheese into toxic waste.


    Lol
     
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    Those who have been misled by outdated cultural icons might have missed the fact that today's women and girls run as fast and as far from any hint of toxic masculinity as possible.
    We can sniff out the rot at distance.
     
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    Bullshit, weak ass women. Here's some pro runners, women and men.



    Again, weak ass women.



    Women's "sports" is boring.
     
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    On the contrary, women don't like toxic masculinity because they don't need or want to be belittled.
    We don't need their silly and insulting bravado.
    They need to catch up with the last 50 years.
     
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    I can't think of any rational and secure man that takes pleasure in belittling which is a form of detestable bullying.

    Re:
    I'm a blacksmith and you may be surprised at the number of female blacksmiths (1) who work in the hot, dirty and dangerous art of shaping hot steel.
    My wife, on the other hand, works in the corporate world where women are very well represented and, based on what I've seen, able to advance very quickly.

    Please clarify what you meant by: "They need to catch up with the last 50 years."

    Thanks,


    (1) "A FEMALE BLACKSMITH"
    https://orange-traveler.com/en/reportazh/a-female-blacksmith/
     
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    First there's no such thing as toxic masculinity to connect it to masculinity is like connecting female toxic behavior to femininity. And I can give you a lot of examples.

    Also women determine what masculinity is. They choose men that they want to be with so in order for men to be chosen they must be a certain way. Women don't like sweethearts if they did most men would be sweethearts. Because they want to be with women.

    If women run away from masculinity because they're being brainwashed into believing that it's toxic then they are running away from heterosexuality.

    I don't understand the desire to connect toxicity with masculinity most child abuse comes from women I don't consider that toxic femininity because I don't think child abuse is connected to femininity.
     
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    Women show what they like by who they choose. We all can see it there is no use in telling us we already know

    Actions speak volumes words that go against them are ignored.
     
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    if not come across too many men that think they'd be Little women maybe women feel like they're belittled by various statements.
    I think this is based on the idea that people believe women should be housewives and some people certainly do I know quite a number of people in various walks of life and the most common people I've met that think women should be housewives are women that are housewives. They like doing that job.
    I usually worked with two female diesel mechanics back when I worked as a diesel mechanic. I think the thing I picked up most from them was their sense of humor. But they were just as competent as the next person why wouldn't they be being a woman doesn't mean you can't understand how mechanical things work.
     
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